Letter(s) to Anthony (USA)

Letter 1

Hello nice to hear from u , i was in New York living in long beach before, but am originally from Ghana because my Dad is a Ghanaian and My Mom is an American and also a white Lady.Am 37years old 5-6 ft tall, 128 lbs and also was married but had a divorce with my husband.I was having 1 daughter but i lost her through child birth. In 2years time i lost my husband and i decided to come and join this online charting to see if i will make it or not.To be honest i really met a man, who told me he was single and also never married have no kids. That was about 2 months when i lived in New York , well he brought me there, to live with him , because he loved me and also wanted to share his life with me , but not knowing he had a wife and kids that he never mention to me. When i later found out r that he had a wife and 2 kids , he told me to be his second wife and also said if am not Intrested then he will send me back to my country. I never knew he will be such a bad man who has no feelings and emotions for me. This really cost me pains and so i decided to come back to Ghana because i cant be his second wife . Because i felt for his other wife , that since am also a woman i have to feel for her pains . If i had known that, that was his plans , i would never have moved to him , but is because of the love and trust that i had and believed in him i fell for him like a water . Well i believe is part of life because we learn from our mistakes and i do believe that God will make a way for u and me like the way he made it for others who have met who ever their right person are .Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses again. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning because i have been hurt....... I don't want to be hurt anymore in my life again. Well i do work as an accountant for a big company here in Ghana , but because of this guy i had to leave everything and come to live there with him. But is rather unfortunately that when i return back to Ghana i couldn't get my position back again, they told me they have to place for me . I did all that i could , try other companies.Some tells me to go and come , thats what they have been doing to me and some directors and the big men want to go into bed with me , before giving me a Job and over my dead body will i do that . i told my grand mom about this and she told me that i shouldn't worry and that is all about time and (yes) i believe her .. So i now help her with her small shop that she is having and at least we make a little from that to survive.....Well i guess you have heard my story and if u know u are still Interested, you can email me on my yahoo email address which is (hopeoflove1@yahoo.com ) or even ADD me to meet online. Thanks and have a nice

Letter 2

Hello Anthony and how are you doing once again, well as i told you on the phone that am very far away from you and u know very well that am now living in Ghana if you are seriouse am also seriouse and that alone can make things work out between you and i.But come to think of it how are we going to meet?well destiny will tell because heaven knows i cant afford to come.Then also i will like our relationship to be build with true love and trust because as i was telling you trust is the only thing that can keep you going because trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really love her.Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies - trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one important ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me?Love means never doubting anything. It means trusting and being honest with each other Someone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people..Then also me being hurt has made me learnt alot from my past experiences and that is I have learned from past experiences that honesty and listening are very important. Communication is important. Never try and change that person but take them with all their faults. Be caring and thoughtful. Never go to bed mad or angry. Discovering new things together day to day helps keep the relationship alive.I value Gods presence in my life very much. Life is too short for games and drama, I am a fun loving Christian woman who takes each day as a gift from God. Im a kind, thoughtful, sincere, respectful person with moral virtues and Christian values.I also want our relationship to be base on truth. honest,love,peace, understanding and most of all trust again..Well thats what i want and i hope you will find my message good to you thanks and waiting to hear from you as well.

Talk to you soon......