Letter(s) to Torbj?rn (Sweden)

Letter 1

Hi ,
Good to hear from you again and hope your day was great.....Well I'm single, never married and no kids.....Yes, I've been here in the UK for almost a week now. I work in the advertisement and sales for a clothing designing firm in West Africa , and that had made me travel a lot around the world. While in the USA , I was in San Francisco in California .....Have you ever been there? My father is in the import and export of cars and that had made him travel quite a while too..... What do you do for work?I really desire a partner to build a future and destiny with.....I want a partner who is sincere, responsible, caring and understanding. I want you to know this for certain, It just don't matter your age or how you look on the outside, what really matters is your inner beauty because "handsomeness" is skin deep". I want a man with character and he should respect a woman. I want someone to build a world of passion and sharing those emotional feelings that seems to be betrayed by other women in his past life! Together we can create great impressions in each others heart forever.
My father always tells me that " To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another". And one important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this. True love is just like rain, it touches us all but only few have seen it. Also I think true love cannot be found where it does not exist, nor can it be denied where it does, so I am looking for a man who will open up his heart and just let the natural flow take over.
I have been to South America a few times and its one of my favourite places apart from Asia . I soaked up the amazing Latin culture, and loved every minute of it! It was such a great learning experience to see different parts of the world, and it really helped me grow and become a more independent woman. We went on trips around south America, countries like Brazil , Chile , Peru , Bolivia , Paraguay , Argentina and Uruguay . I experienced more over my break than most people do throughout their entire lives.I really would have liked to stay longer and wasn't ready to come back to Africa yet, but it was time for me to go home and resume my life that I left behind.
Meanwhile, I had the best year of my life -- from snowboarding in the Andes Mountains and viewing up close the majestic glaciers of Calafate, to horsebackriding in Cordoba and exploring the ancient Incan ruins of Machu Picchu , from taking a boat ride under the Iguazu Falls and visiting Ushuaia (the southernmost city in the world), to island-hopping in Lake Titicaca (the largest lake in South America ) and soaking up the sizzling South American sun on the ritzy resort beaches of Punta del Este, you name it and I was probably there! I also went skydiving, which was one of the many crazy things I wanted to do before I die. I have some photos of me around the world but don't know how to send it on match, so email me here and I will reply with the photos........Regards,

Letter 2

Thank you for your email and time for reading through my mails......I just joined match couple of days ago and you are the first person who can really express himself to my expectations........
I only speak English. I am also not desperately looking for a man but it would be great to meet someone special to share a lot with together. Actually a friend from Sweden introduced me to this when she new I have been single for a long time now, and she thinks it could give me a new diversity of dating since I am not in a rush, but who knows?
To me, distance, age or language has no value but what matters is love and happiness. This is the time for me to step out of the shadows of my life and share the spotlight with my leading man. I am free to move beyond the stage where I have watched life's drama unfold before my eyes. I want to fulfill a role that I have before me. I do not pretend to be something I am not. I have played many roles in my life. All the roles and bit parts where the stepping stones to my future. I am discovering who I am and what I truly am about. My time has come to quit waiting in the wings and take my place in this world. I have learned of the many facets of the human complexities. I have learned to love others just right where they are at. Difficult as it can be at times, yet to me love is what prevails. Love is not just a sentiment. Love is the ultimate truth at the heart of creation. Any relationship that is based on need is doomed for failure. And any relationship that is based on playfulness leads to ecstasy. Our meaning and context in life come from relationships. In the absence of relationships, we don't even exist.......
When you've found someone, identify the qualities in them that you find attractive, and then display those same qualities yourself. In other words, don't borrow their energy, but become their energy.
When you fall in love with somebody, simply write down the traits that you really admire in them and then say to yourself, 'I will also display those traits.' And when you do that, you are no longer borrowing their energy, you are becoming that energy. And then instead of need, there's time to play and enjoy. I Love the arts of what life has to offer. Would like to share with someone who has similar likes.. He can have opposite likes and taste yet adventurous and willing to share his ideas with me . He would be open to listening to my heart and accept me as I am willing to grow in a relationship of a lifetime. I do love the out of doors, mountains to the ocean. Have a great passion for animals and especially dogs...... i do have one and love to ride horses too. A few stories to share and experiences to remember. Wide range of passions and am blessed with an attitude of gratitude. Am thankful for so much though am not really blessed financially but I think emotional blessings are worth more than money........My goal is a relationship leading to a lifelong companionship a joining at the heart to let us share all life has to offer.
I want a man who is very truthful, understanding, caring and who is prepared to love me in whatever situation, not only when periods of milk and honey are flowing but also when bitterness and pain stare at us right in the face. There and then, after we've been able to conquer, there we can proudly say WE DID IT, AND TOGETHER WE SHALL ALWAYS BE.Feel free to call me on 00447031873764
hope to hear from you soon.

Letter 3

Hi Sweetheart,
How are you doing today?hope you are as fit as a fiddle.
As we discussed, i was at the embassy this afternoon and there is a good news.The embassy said they will grant me a tourist visa which they will give to me in one week.But they asked of certaind requirement,that is
1.My bank account over here should contain an amount of 10 thousand Euros but at the moment all that i have is only 8 thousand Euros,so that in one week time i will be in Sweden.that makes me soo happy atleast i will see your face and be the mother of your children.
I personally paid 131 Euros for the visa fee and need to flash my account with 2000 Euros now so i will be given the visa this week i only need 2000 Euros to flah my accountwith it so when i get to Sweden we take it out of my account.They said i should have that amount of money in my account just to Quarantee them that i will be able to take care of my self .
Am so happy for us.Hope we meet soon
Kisssssssssseesssssss and hugs

Letter 4

Hello tobbe,
I read your mail this evening and was shocked by your choice of words.Anyway is that why you didn`t call me?I was actually expecting a call from you but you never did.Is it because of what i asked from you?oh no.You should have called me so we work it out in a better way.So tell me is it Over now?Write to me and call me also.We can be friends if you want to.You are really a nice man and hope our friendship and dreams hasn`t come to an end.
Take care

Letter 5

Hello Sweet heart,
Thanks for calling me,you dont know how you made me when i talked to you on the phone today.You have a very nice house and nice cars ,Honestly i like them.cant wait to be there
Well am ever ready to come meet you in Sweden to build our future together.I want you to be the father of my children and want to be in your arms and help you take care of your kids too.

well about the money, you send it online on computer through western union money transfer.Using your credit card ,so there will be no need for you to go to your bank and to do it there.Go to www.western union money transfer and follow the instructions from there..You can do it right now at home so by tomorrow morning i will receive it,so i can go to my bank to process the Bank statement the Embassy wants.After sending the money you will be given a money transfer control number (MTCN)that i will need here to withdraw the money.
Here are the only information you will need to send the money to me.

My name is; HERTY LAWSON
country ; Ghana
City ; Accra
Amount ;2000 Euros

After you finish with the transactions these are the information they will give to you in order for me to withdraw the money.
1.Text Question and answer
2.Money Transfer control number(MTCN)
3.Your full name.

Honey please do it right now with your credit card,I just cant wait to process this and join you in Sweden.And dont forget the size of your children too. Please Call me after you finish reading it
Love you

Letter 6

hi sweatheart,
I dont know why we are facing this problem right now.Any way i still need to assure my Bank that i will deposit the money the embassy requested for.So please you just send the 400 euro right now and tell them that you will send the rest through my account direct from Sweden tomorrow.
I have to go deposit something at the bank today for them to know that am really serious.
so go ahead and send the 400euro.Miss you and thinking about you.Am waitig for you online now.
Love you

Letter 7

hello tobbe,
thanks so much for calling me,really nice hearing your voice.
you have beautiful kids.
write to me back if you receive this mail.am online now.

Letter 8

hello Tobbe,
I am interested in getting to know you more better too . I like mutual attraction first before anything else, ..... Moreover I am in the U.K now on my last project for the company I work for.. A week ago I was in the USA and I will be going back home by this weekend since my contract is over and I have missed my family so much... May be we could talk on the phone while am here in Birmingham , before I go back home. .I will look forward to your email again and .It is nice to hear you talk to me on the phone.
Yes i would love to meet you someday if the future permits us.Can you tell me more about your work?Work has taken me to so many countries and have even been to Japan, China ,thailand ,egypt .Croatia,Usa etc.
My mom is from India and my Dad is from Ghana and runs a business there so thats where i have stayed for a very long time.
I have closed my account at match .com because i dont want to be contacted by other men.Are you really serious to meet me?If your answer is yes then i hope you do the same too so we dont get distracted by other people..Hope to hear from you soon.here are some photos of me ,hope you like them

Letter 9

Hello Tobbe,

Thank you so much for getting back in touch with me as it actually made my day!!!, you sound like all i want , you are my perfect match . I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today. The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions.

Am looking for a man that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need,stand by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in everyway, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,constantly creative, and treat me right.... I know you will think what is a pretty lady like me doing on here .. Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise .

Dear The very reason I am interested in establishing a friendship with you is because I feel I have alot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have alot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I am very much a woman of substance and I am very unique in todays society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a woman of integrity and my word is my honor!. I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others.For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart.

Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write, I am the opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give them my very best even if it is in a long letter such as this. I know the type of person who I want to build a friendship with so I am willing to put the time and effort in my messages to show that to you.
I safely arrived here in Ghana and greetings from here to you.Its really hot in here.My mobile number is 00233244188717.I will go to the swedish embassy here on monday to check on the necessary requirement to come to sweden and i will give you the details later.
Your Friend;

Letter 10

Hi sweetheart,
How are you doing?I miss you soooooooooooooooooooooo much and i know you miss me as well.
Here are some pcitures of me for you and your children.
I love you with all my heart and soul and will join you as soon as possible....
Your soon to be wifey
Kisssssssssssssssssseesssssssssss and hugs
I love you .

Letter 11

Hello sweetheart,
How are you doing today?
hope you are doing great..
I miss you like crazy and cant wait for tomorrow to take my flight.
I will fly from Ghana at 8;00pm and get to Amsterdam the next day.
Then continue to Stockholm,from there to Gallavare.
I love you and a big kiss to you
Kisssssseeessss in zillions

Letter 12

Hello Mr.Tobbe,
This is from the Ghana immigration service concerning the arrest of your fiancee miss herty lawson.She was found at the luggage check point with about 35 kilograms of gold jewellery worth 56,000 Euros without any legal documents covering it...
We are particularly interested in such cases because Ghana is a Gold mining area and Gold smuggling is very high here and these are the measures the immigration board has taken to control it.....So please bear with us.
We are very sorry for any inconvenience created, she would not be able to fly to Armsterdam to day until she produce the legal document to cover the Gold jewellery and she will be allowed to take her flight...All her flight schedules and cost will be taken care of by the immigration service....She said the gold jewellery was a gift from her Dad to you.
The immigration board has therefore listened to her plead of ignorance and has decided she pays a FINE of 10,000 euros for her immediate release for her to leave the country within 3 working days or she will be persecuted and be sentenced to 4 months imprisonment.....
Below are the rules and regulations for ones arrest....
Hope to hear from you soon.
Your`s Sincere,
Senior Officer(Botchway)
Ghana immigration service

Letter 13

Hello honey,
How are you doing tonight?
Hope all is well.
Honey i dont understand why you always tell me that you dont trust me..
Okay please tell me if you dont Love me again.
How can you say you love me and you dont trust me?
The KLM ticket thing that happened the otherday was a mistake on the side of the Travel agent who booked the ticket for me.
Do you think i will just get up and go to the Airport with my Luggage that am Travelling?
Honey believe me for once that you are the last thing i want to see in my Life before i die.
Tomorrow i will be facing the court over here and whatever happens to me i believe that is my fate.
You dont know how i feel for you and your children
I truely love you tobbe.
I can swear on that.
If you dont believe me FINE.
But i want you to know that you are on my heart and i will always love you.

Letter 14

i am very sorry that you have been through all that..
That is not good at all.....Honey please trust me for once...
I know that a whole lot of things gas happened when we met but i keep saying that its not my fault.
Trust me honey!!!!
I dont know why you are finding it difficult to trust me..
Okay if what you are saying means good bye to our relationship let me know.
You are breaking my heart when you begin to complain about so much too.
You should know that there are times in every mans life that we go through problems...
So if you are walking away because of one thing or another its okay..
It pains me so much that we are both far away from eachother and i am making an effort to come meet you and things are not going the way we both expect,but that does not mean we should give up on eacthother.
It is only losers who give up during hard times....
Please tobbe dont give up on me..
I love you.
I told you before that this is Africa with poor communication facilities so there is now webcam here
Please reply this mail before i go

Letter 15

My Angel.
i love you so much and you call me when you get some free time
I love you Tobbe,

Letter 16

Mr Tobbe, thamks a lot for the letter.this is to inform you that the said document is fake and dose not come from the Ghana Immigration Service. I can assre you it is a rip off.

Letter 17

hello honey,
How are you doing today?how are my children too....
Sweetheart i really need you so much now..
I dont know why we are both going through so much mess now.
I love you so much and i can Swear on my life that i will definitely see you before i die.
If you really love me as you say please send me this money today or else my life will come to an end.
You are all i have in my world now and i will never bother you with any problem again..
I dont know what you have done to my heart and i also love you so much..
I believe in Destiny and i know its God who has brought us together....
You dont know how much i need this money and how it will save me .
I will come to sweden honey and we will get married soon.
I know am putting you through so much problems but do this last thing i ask of you for me.
I have good plans for you and your children and want them to be mine too.
pls reply me as soon as possible .
I love you Tobbe

Letter 18

I have been through alot of problems lately and i was afraid to tell you.
I bought a house a couple of months ago and i paid part to them...
Now the agent want the rest of their money from me and the case have been taken to court.
In a few days they will take the house from me and i need to pay the rest of the money in some few days.
This is one problem i need to sought out..
Honey i will come when i finish with this case here....I love you and i need a man by my side and that man is you..
Am sorry for not telling you this earlier on and i promise it will never happen again.
Do you have plans of coming to Ghana some day?If yes that will be our home when we visit Ghana for our traditional marriage.
I love you so much no matter what happens.Whether rain or shine i will always be yours
I need your help honey ,if you really love me please help me out.kissssssseeeeeeessssss

Letter 19

Hello honey,
How are you today?and i must say that i am highly disappointed in you.
I dont know why all this is happening and for you to allow your bank to Stop you from sending the money to me..
I dont have 5,000 EURO in my account now I have used that money for some domestic stuffs,and i can see that there is no way i will have it.If i have the 5,000 EURO i will surely do it..
Honey cant you send this money online(computer) for me? OR Cant you do the transfer in another branch of your bank?
I dont think that is the only bank that you have there...
If possible cash the money from your bank and tell them you are going to use it for some business and go send it from another bank..
I love you Tobbe and please do this for me..
I am waiting for your reply now.
Kissssssssseeeeeeeeeeessssssssss .
I love your BIKE and i want a picture of you sitting on it...

Letter 20

Honey please forget about what has happend in the past and lets move on...
I love you so much thats why am saying sorry..
I love you and want to spend the rest of my life with you..

Letter 21

My sweetheart,
I love you like crazy ...tell me what have you done to my heart here..

My post address is:
P.O.BOX DS,1691


Letter 22

hello Sweet heart,
how are you doing today?Hope you are feeling good..
I just want to tell you about my life since you insist i do that for you.
I am herty lawson ,31 years of age and an African to be precise from Ghana.
I am the oldest child of my parents me and my younger brother..
My mum died when giving birth to my younger brother about 21 years ago.
So all my life i have been staying with my Dad and my younger brother.
About one year ago,my younger brother acquired a kidney disease and he is dying now..
You said i should tell oyu all my problems and you will help me..
I did not want to tell you at the beginning because i did not want to bother you with my problems that is why i lied to you and i said i am very very sorry.
My problem is that my younger brother is dying and i need to pay for his surgery or else i will loose him.My Dad is now an old man and he is not working and am also not working either...Job is really hard to find here.
Secondly too our home is being taken away from us and i need to get a a place for my family..By the end of next week we shall become homeless that is why i need your help so badly now..
One thing i want you to know is that i love you soo much and want to be with you if we work it out.

I need your help on this matter and i promise that will be the last time i will bother you with any problem again in my life..
Please tell the Bank what you want them to do not what they tel you..
Now we chat on webcam most of the time so you tell them that...If the bank refuse to do the transfer ,collect the money and tell them you are going to use it for some business and you go to another Bank and transfer the money from there ...That is possible too
I love you Tobbe and i need your help badly
Kissssseeeeeesss and hugs