Letter(s) to Fabrizio (Italy)

Letter 1

Well am Mary 30 yrs old single from a mixed raced,my father is from U.S.A and my mother is from GHANA that is (West-Africa) ,what I love is reading novels as well as cooking and doing a lot of house works. I also like to hang out with my loved one as well. a now living with my Mom in Ghana..late Father passaway when i was Only 18 years Old well I will say my Father was the Best man i have ever Loved he is so caring,loving,Godfearing,respectful and responsible father but i trusted and Believe in God and I know God is Doing is Things In his Own way.. i have learn To be a Strong woman have hard working my i lost my late father i was working and schooling at the same Time that was how i was grow. i have been In a Relationship which end Up 2 years Ago becouse the guy was very unfaithful it has Cost me alot Of pain and i am now Looking for a Loving Godfearing and Responsible man To settle down with that is why i am Here So If you Intrested Let get and know More about each Other Hope and willling to hear From You soon ..................................In any good relationship, there should be trust, communication, understanding, and honesty. Life is a precious gift from God, and it should be lived with love and joy. I enjoy various activities. I can bowl, skate, swim, play chess, checkers, draw, bike riding, a little fishing and crabbing, a little golf, have tried tennis, camping, sports etc. It does not matter. I am a very average versatile person, and not hard to please. I enjoy the complex as well as the simple things in life.. i love poetry, books, walks on the beach and cozy candlelight dinners. I enjoy movies, television, music, traveling, the desert, the quietness of the mountains, the ocean, sunrises and sunsets.
I am comfortable in jeans or a nice english suit. A nonsmoker/drinker, not into drugs (don't need them; I live in a natural high). I believe in enjoying the good life and am high on it. I have a healthy attitude about God and the Bible.Im a very outgoing person, who loves to dine out travel and enjoy the simple life. Im a hopeless romantic and very affectionate. I have a good sense of humor and I like to make you laugh.I like to chill out with a good book or watch and movie and its even more fun when you have a special someone to do this with. Im very easy to get a long with and a very good listener..I love To share My Time with People I Love and care eg,freinds and Family.well about my family i come from a very small unit Of Family My Mother,brother and I,I am an honest heart that's looking for a stable relationship. I understand it is important to lay down lasting foundations for a lasting relationship. I am an active person who enjoys cycling and running best. I believe keeping fit is important. I am not interested in games or drama. I enjoy fine dining and am always looking for someone to share the appreciation of good food and fine wine. I amjust as comfortable with my hair up in old jeans as with my hair down wearing my favorite little black dress. I love to dance: All styles, disco, house, or swing. I like getting out and checking out local talent and live concerts, here or anywhere. I enjoy movies and music for relaxation. A quiet night at home is also enjoyed and welcomed. I am open to try different activities and up for the challenge.I love spontaneity and being a bit impulsive. I am continually attempting to function from the inside out and to go with my intuitive impulses, because sometimes the spontaneous actions are the most fun, not expected and purely delightful.I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it).I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me...I do not expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that.I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me.
I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.As you can tell, I am not a bs'er and believe in total communication................... Not that we can do that all the time, but ultimately we can get the feelings out without too much delay, I hope. I believe in getting to know my partner and communication seems to be the best way to do this. I am adventurous. love to see new places and experience new things. I will always have the little kid in me ,even though I am very responsible !! love to play,I am on the computer getting into it more and more!!! dancing is important to me I want soo badly to get better at it !!!It is such a positive way of having fun and expressing yourself,and you get to show your woman to the world on the dance floor like a beautiful flower equal partnership takes to to tango ,compromise ,communication is sooooo important!!!!I will always be who I am at the core my soul my being who I am and what makes me ,Butttt!!! I am chuck full of potential I actually can be taught !!!!! LOL!!! woman need to be like a guiding light for men we sometimes have a tendence to miss the little things ,not on purpose.man and a woman should work as a team together ,I cook ,clean,dust ,and do laundry

Letter 2

I had a man named james I met him through the internet dating site.He then proposed to me that he is very interested in me and want to be with me, I did agreed with his proposal and we tried to get to know each other more for awhile.we then also heard each other's real voice on the phone to trust and believe each other more.
Within some weeks later ,james told me that he would like me to come to the state and be with him and if possible we can get married.james told me that he was single and looking for Love without no kids, I did informed my grand mother about what james said,My grand mother, only adviced me to take very good care of myself and now adays men cannot be trusted and maybe he is up to something..
A week later,We started working on my documents to go to the states and be with james.I then depart from Ghana and then met james at the airport,He then took me to a restuarant nearer to the airport to have some soft drinks and have fun.Which after we moved from the restuarant ,we then went to a house where james told me that it was his apartment, I did saw a lady with kids ,james told me, that was his sister so i didnt bother to ask him so much questions.
.And that is the kind of job that he has running over there to earn much money.I didnt agreed I was in james's apartment for 3 weeks,james served me good,but it got to a time james came to make some discussions with me.james told me that ,He would like me to join a prostitution team so that we can earn much money with james at all , I am a very good christian woman and a good christian woman shouldnt have to do such thing and even the almighty God is going to judge you someday.
So i felt so worried and sad ever since james did came to tell me about that issue.One day,a lady called me and warned me to stay away from james ..Not knowing the lady that i did saw with kids was jame's wife and he lied to me that it was his sister,that also made me confused and thinking always.So i tried to inform james about it,He was not willing to tell me the truth about what was going on.
So the lady kept on giving me warning to stay away from james and if not she is going to hurt me ,so i did plead with her to tell me much about what she is saying,so we did sat down and she told me that ,she is already married with James with 4 wonderful children.And she even showed me their engagement ring's ,she also showed me some pictures of their wedding day,she even advices me that ,she is a woman and it will pain her so much if i do get cheated and hurt by James.So i should try my best to find another man to be with because James is just going to use me and dump me somewhere else.
So i did went to my room cried so hardly,I prayed to the almighty God for guiding and protecting me from getting hurt.So when James arrived,I tried to ask him to tell me the truth about what was going on the house,But it seems like he is not willing to tell me the truth.
So even the woman help me with some amount of money to get my trip back to Ghana,I did thank her so much for telling me the truth.
So when i arrived here in Ghana,I did told a friend of mine about how i got hurt by James ,she even told me that now a days men cannot be trusted with our heart.They normally just use us and dump us after they do get whatever they want from the woman. so she even did advice me to take another chance to see whether i could find a right good man to be with me.And that's why i have get back on the internet and i know all fingers are not equal and with God all things are possible.. My Love this is the problem I went through ,Along time Ago.. So U perfectly have to understand me , and send me the money and I'm never going to failed you Or do something bad to you love, So If you read this and you still not Agree with me then you have to find your way so that I will also seeking for some one Else darling ... I don't want you to till keep on with the Issue.........i promise to do anything for you when i get there as well darling

Letter 3

Hello my love how are you doing today and i really missed you alot and i can't wait to be in your arms and i promise to do everything in my power to make you a great man in your life

pls my love and i hop by the time you get home you have send the money for me and mum dress for tomorrow church