Letter(s) to Fabian (USA)

Letter 1


Thanks for getting back to me.Am happy to hear from you and am MARY,29 years old,single,am a Christian and am .5.7...Am white and i love reading novels that talks about passions and love,i like listening s to R and B music and i love going to the beach to have fun and also watch football..So i will you to know that am now in NIGERIA with my DAD..My DAD is from NIGERIA and my MUM is from SPAIN and i don't know how they meet and they have their wedding in NIGERIA and later b cos the family of my MUM are in the UNITED STATE,so they went there to have their happy family and about some years later my DAD found out that my MUM has another man that she goes out with and my DAD decided to tell her and she denied,there they had a conflict and they have to divorce and ever since then my DAD have been alone and came back to NIGERIA,where he works as a driver.I was about 4years old when all this happened and while i was being brought to NIGERIA,i had my primary school here and also secondary and university where i went for ACCOUNTING as a course and at the age of 18 year old i asked my DAD about my MUM and he narrated all this for me and it was so PATHETIC and he also told me that i will have to find a soul mate that will love me and care for me but i should be very careful b cos men are not ready for true love but games which i don't want. ?Therefore i need some one that is honest,kind,caring,trustworthy and God fearing and i will also like you to know that i was born in KENTUCKY,on MAY 05 1980.And i will like to be very careful but i will also let you to know that my favorite color is BLUE and my food is DOUGH NUT and WINE...I will be waiting to hear from you very soon so that i will also know you better and are you really ready for a serious relationship b cos we are not getting younger anymore....Thanks .

Letter 2

Am happy to read from you once again Gentle Man.Days go by with thoughts of you in my mind, and I've asked myself what is happening? My heart said I should follow it to where it leads me, 'cause it is always true to me. When I first saw you on dating site, I thought, 'Dammm! What a guy!' Then we contact one another, wanting to know why you are a single,with all your qualities and nice Picture and to be a very close and good friend. But every time I would think of you, my whole body shivered.. Come to think of it.Are you divorce???If so your ex was lucky, she should have cherished, honored, admired and been appreciative of you. She is a fool to lose you,but if you have not been in relationship before then we are same cos have not done this before and am doing it for the first time.Am using Computer for the very first time and am not here for games.I would like you to tell me more about your family.

Well am the only child of my Dad and he was the one that introduced me to this Online dating cos he wants the best in life for me,all men here for games and it would be his Joy if i could meet the right one on Internet cos people have been doing it here and it was successful,i believe mine will be Better as well and thats why am trying it now,i have you only in my list here and what about you???To be sincere with you,it was 11 Men that contact me from the site including you,but 4 of them smokes and drinks.5 are not ready for serious relationship but they are after Sex,they are not ready to be Loved and love someone so it could probably lead to Marriage someday.1 of them emailed me last time and he said his ex got back to him so no reason to mail him anymore.Then you are the only one now and can you try and get off your profile from the site so no one will contact you Dearest???.How do you Survive??I mean whats the source of your Income??.How old are you?Are you ready for serious relationship and what do you want to be the outcome of your relationship with your queen??Have you ever meet or spoken with anyone out your country,may be Africa or Asia?Do you forgive easily and forget?What are your religious views?Do you believe in a God?If you're mad about something how will you let me know?Do you like sharing your feelings?Would you have an abortion?What are your views on abortion?Do you want children?How many children do you think a couple should have?Do you think couples should argue in front of their kids?What are your life goals?What are your passions?Do you believe in marriage?Do you believe you should only marry once?.I would like you to answer all the questions accordingly,with your understanding and wisdom that God gave you.After that read below and you will see my answer below.

I know you are cute, but every time I would think of you, you'd tend to look even cuter than ever. When I think of you and see you in imagination way, I say to myself, God is really good, the greatest architect ever, to design and create such wonderful eyes as bright as the stars in the sky, on a dark and lonely night. A smile of exquisiteness brightens up my world.

It was so nice hearing from you,I will really love to know more about you, in your answer you sound like someone I will like to spend the rest of my life with a man like you and do you like being single??, you really made my day and i cant stop thinking about you every time i keep checking my mail if you are Going to email me, hope everything is cool, sure i can be your lady while you will be my man, i will be so loyal to you,well you know relationship is not something u could just run into in case of not getting hurt ....as i told u my heart have been searching for true love,it has been to East,South,West and North all the time,but i haven't meet the right one yet. so i did not know how i could just put my trust in a man so i just need a honest and a loyal man i could just spend the rest of my life with,i believe you could be the one.So i believe in a relationship what matter most is to be honest so that u could just have a long term relationship with a man.I need a man who could just be the angel of my life with all my heart i am telling u this, I will love to meet you someone like you and know more about you.I like everything about you and all what we need most is Honest,Trust and Faithfulness.I will always Honor and Respect you.Treat my man as King over me and will never hurt him.CAN I TRUST YOU?.CAN U TRUST ME ?.CAN WE TRY THIS ONLINE DATING TOGETHER?.

How do you spend your days??I like reading most of the time,i listen to music and i do watch movie allot,am home now cos my place of working got burnt 6 days ago by Fire.So now i don't have any work.Just looking for a new Job.Am beautiful, strong, passionate, Christian, warm, loving, friendly, compassionate, intelligent, calm, genuine, witty, creative, responsible, sensible, spontaneous and adventurous. I enjoy ... life, love, good health, family, friendships, making a positive difference in the lives of others, travel, nature, writing,reading and creativity.I am seeking to share life with a compatible, respectful, positive, and supportive Christian man who is capable of giving and receiving love.A man who is confident in who he is and comfortable in his own skin. Someone who has no problem with being spoiled and knows how to reciprocate. A man who will send my favorite flowers for no other reason than to see the smile on my face, and won't be embarrassed when I do the same. My superman will know how to work hard, play hard, and love hard. Now

If you are mine for real, I'll put you on top of my most valuable goods, my antiques, diamonds, pearls and riches; I'll put you in a glass showcase by yourself, and polish you every day, keep you glittering and I will honor, cherish, squeeze and hold you tight. At night, I'll let you carry me and place me on your pillow, right by your side, and afterwards, kiss you goodnight, and hold you all through the night, and do it right. I'd give all I can to keep you.Am so happy to meet someone like you??Hope we wont waste this Opportunity why we have come together??Lets try and make something out of this then we wait and see where God is leading us to.Dont hurt me,i will not,don't disappoint me and i will never do such to you as far as God is concerned.

How do you Survive,I mean whats the source of your Income??(Well for now i don't have any work.)

How old are you?(Am 29 Are you ready for seriuos relationship and what do you want to be the outcome of your relationship with your queen??Yes am ready,i want to settle down and have a family of my own with my husband and finally blessed with Kids someday and happy Home.)

Have you ever meet or spoken with anyone out your country,may be Africa or Asia?(No.)

Do you forgive easily and forget?(Yes thats me.)

What are your religious views?(I believe that I have a personal relationship with God and im a very spiritual person.)

Do you believe in a God?(Yes with all my heart.)

If you're mad about something how will you let me know?(I will calmly tell you that im hurt.)

Do you like sharing your feelings?(Yes I do with people that I trust.)

Would you support an abortion?(No and never.)

What are your views on abortion?(You are killing a child who was going to be a part of your family and who knows how great the child might become in life.)

Do you want children?(Yes)

How many children do you think a couple should have?(This depends on God cos He is the one that gives children to someone but as for me i would pray for a Son and a Daughter.)

Do you think couples should argue in front of their kids?(No.)

What are your life goals?(To have a good career a loving husband and children,cos children are the best thing to archieve in the world,when someone die,its better to have some children left so the family or generation will never die.)

What are your passions?(I am passionate about what I believe I wont give up on my family. I am a strong Woman but understand that relationships are about compromise. I am passionate about love, family, and standing up for what is right.)

Do you believe in marriage?(Absolutely!)

Do you believe you should only marry once?Yes.

Am so happy that we meet and i will be looking forward to read from you very soon.

Olaniyan Mary

Letter 3

Dear Fabian,
I love you. I love every little thing about you. I love your cute smile, your magical eyes, and the sound of the way you type. I love your gentle touch, and I love the warmth I feel I’m by your side. I can't stop thinking about you when we are apart. I need you by my side. You complete me. You mean the world to me. You are the best thing that has ever happened to me. You are the one I've always wished for. I never thought that I would ever meet someone as special as you. I love each and every moment I share with you.Let me start by saying that I thank God every night since I found you. You came into my life when everything seemed so dark but you provided the light to find my way. I've never been so certain of anything in my life like I am of us. You have totally changed my outlook in life and I thank you for that. I never thought that someone could love me like you do, but guess what? I love you that much too. I feel as if I'm walking over clouds just thinking about you. You make my life complete. I know you've said we could do foolish things while in love, but you know what? With you I wouldn't mind being a fool for the rest of my life. I love you so much and I know you love me too. I know that others looking into our relationship might think that we're saying too many foolish things too soon but they just don't know how we feel about each other. There's nothing foolish about the things I've told you, I meant every word I said. I love you and for you and Fabian. I would do anything, I love you both so much. Today I promise you that I would do anything in my power to make you a great person, outstanding father and loving husband.Thank you for admiring me and I will i would love to meet you soon.I will be thinking of you and wait for you to mail me back.Cant wait to meet you in person and hold you tight in my Arms and i will live my life with you and spend the rest of it with you there Baby.I will be here waiting,thinking,missing you until you get back to me."T" is for times I tell you that I love you and I AM your Love... you don't EVER have to worry because I'm here until the end..
"R" is for the reservation that I sometimes find with you.. I know you have to protect your heart, but it's MY heart that I'm giving to you..
"U" is for understanding that I'm not perfect, nor do I try to be.. I can only do what I can at the time, and it hurts so much when you're upset with me..
"S" is for security that WE as Love MUST have to feel "safe".. we both must learn to find this or the time we've spent WILL go to waste..
"T" is for the "tests" that life brings, that sometimes are never our control.. but when you have a good Love, you pull her close inside, and NEVER let her go..
The word TRUST is a very strong word and I too have had my "doubts"... but it's what I have relearned to do.. to be your Love and to love you, I HAD to cast my fears out and you as well..
It's a word that begins with one.. "U", but soon becomes two, "US"... a word that is so fulfilling once it's found, yet a simple word, the word trust..
"US", the foundation that this word has.. without it trust WOULD NOT exist.. "US" allows our Relationship and our love to last, and once it's there, it's hard to resist..
But when you lose that beginning "T", everything we share WILL tarnish and begin to "rust".. so much power in that letter "T", no relationship will EVER last without TRUST..
Your Wife
Olaniyan Mary

Letter 4

Dear Fabian,
Fabian, it should be emphasized that the kind of love existing in our relationship is void of fantasy or a whirlwind romance. If you don't know, my love for you isn't the comparative analysis of "M&B" stories or any other fictional romance. But this is the love that is enveloped with the seal of reality without any shadow of doubt.Not that there are no other fish in the ocean upon whom I can sling my hook, but who can be like my dear Fabian that loves me with such generosity of heart? I love a hand that meets my own with a grasp that causes some sensation and which only your's can do. I love you not only because of beauty but for your sense of decency, delicacy, kindness and other complementary qualities. I can't help doting on you. Therefore all my gestures of love towards you come straight from the bottom of my heart, I swear! i Love You (Fabian) I want to start by saying that I miss you, and you have no idea how much I love you.I know you don't need another reminder because I tell you a thousand times a day how much I love you, but I do and that is my only way to show you. I love the hundred ways you show me how much you love me, and I know my simple words can never compare.From day one, I knew there was something in you that no other guy had. You are the most AMAZING guy I have ever known. Thinking back to the strange way we met, how we grow so close in just a few short days, and how you were the first one to show me the meaning of true love, it makes me smile and fall all over for you again.Baby, you make my heart beat faster each time I see you, and you give me butterflies when you kiss me. You are the one I want to hold for the rest of my life. In your arms is where I belong.You melt me every time you tell me about the future that you want to spend with me and how we could show the world the real meaning of being in love with the right person.I wish the people around me saw you and accepted us being together, because I don't think I could live a day knowing that you are not in my life. I know that anyone that tried to replace you would only be compared to you in my mind, and I know they could never live up to you in my eyes. Every time I look into your eyes I know that is where I want to live and die, and every time you hold me tight I don't want you to let go because that is the only place I feel safest.I know when we first got together everyone wanted us apart. One of my Dads friends told me that our relationship would never last,cos men are here for games, and they still tell us that. But we have proven him wrong and I want you to stay in my life forever, but i know when we meet he will be wrong and i will laugh at him,as you will in my heart. I know forever is a very long time but it won’t be enough time for me to spend with you, showing you every day how much I love and care about you.I hate being far from you.I was online waiting for you to join me so we can talk better and make me happy,i never see you and i was wondering where you have been to and or whats going on with your computer i see you writing to me so long?i will be here waiting,missing and thinking of you until you get back tome and i cant wait to meet you in person and spend the rest of my life with you,can you tell me the name of the airport again and is it an International Airport??? I pray that you will carry my love for you in your heart while you are gone, and I look forward to the day when we can be together again.Cant wait to meet you in person.
Your Wife
Olaniyan Mary
With Love and Respect