Letter(s) to Reggie (USA)

Letter 1

Good Morning Reggie,

How are you feeling these very minutes? I'm good and hope you too,I'm just coming back fro Church,Church service was good,Thank God for today. Reggie,Your words have deeply identify who and what you want in life,Honestly. You deserved to have a God fearing woman to be the wife of your unborn kids,however you should be glad you've come accross the lady with God fearing,much love to give and share, very respected lady from a very remote family.

Looking at your picture,Hmm....I'm just smiling because it seems to me as you are saying some words but not sure of what you saying,lol. I consider my seld as a caring,Faithful,Loyal,Truthful,Loving,Generous,Goals Achiever,Honest,Spiritual oriented,Future driven,Confidential,Understands the ups and downs of life,Commited to relationship,Reader,Visionary,Compatible,Conservative,Passionate,Romantic,sexy and loving.

You should know,I am the only daughter of my momy Who cares much about my personal life,Whom Had always wished to see me getting married to a desirable man of my choice(who knows if it you).Some one presentable and good looking from inside and out side.

I'm a good cook,I can prepare delicious meals like fried rice with Chicken,Can prepare beef burger,Can prepare pizza,Italian sea food,Can prepare red boiled beans with fried fish and fried plantian,Can prepare Samosa and etc.

I don't smoke or drink acholic beverage,But i like to taste wine or shampaign with good flavor. My favourite colours are white,pink and green. I am currently persuing career to becoming a professional hair dresser/saloonist.

I am seeking to meet some one caring,faithful,communicative,loyal,generous,understanding,future driven,honest,truthful to be with in a long term relationship,Courtship or marrige ,Some one with Good life principles to set an example to our children in the near future,God fearing person.

Some one who knows what to offer in life to a woman,Ready to share poverty,richness,failure and victory together,is whom i have always beem dreaming to meet in my life.

I have my Masters Degree in Organizational Behavior,Have my Diploma in hair dressing,I have my Masters Degree in Business management,I have masters in business administration.

I am some one who spent most of her daily 80 percent activity reading inspirational books,Motivational books,Ficts,Journals,like writing poetry,love letters,Equipping my self pratically with some hair dressing stylish design.

What kind of woman are you planning to meet in your life to build your career together,What are your future gaols,What is your profession? Do you live in a house or apt? What is your vision in life?

I don't play games or play with peoples e-motion.Do you mind sharing any thing about your spiritual belief.

I don't mind to relocate to where i can have peace of mind,establish my hair dressing saloon business,Will like to work with you as a business partner's,Soul partners,Smile and laugh together to our satisfaction and to live a great life of our own choice.

Waiting for your mail.
Truely honoured.
Vida.

Letter 2

Hello dear,

How are you doing today? I am new To this online stuffs and You? Am Vida Larbi. I am single , no kids, 5-6 ft tall, 128 lbs, 32 yrs of age, black hair and fair in color.. I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it).

Actually am from Ghana west Africa and not that am here for something or anything. My profile says am in the State because a friend recommend the site for me and she help me created the profile and i edited it. But I wasn't able to change the location. But don't let distance discourage you because you don't know, maybe it can solve what u have been wanting for you. So like am giving it a try, you also can.

I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I like swimming, playing computer games, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.

I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working...

I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me.

Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses.

but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. I realize that I am 32 years old and that you are somewhat Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other.

Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or mean sounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt.

To love me is to accept me as I am. I do not want to be judged for the things I do. I want you to trust me and let me do what I feel is right. We women are always "right" — it is a matter of love. When I feel alone, empty, a stranger, I want your eyes to tell me I am the person you love and you want me for what I am. Do not do or say things because you think you are "honest", do them because you feel you love me, and trust me even though you think I am wrong. Just as we do not judge our children because they are our children and we love them.

I like to have a good time, and enjoy spending time with my friends and family. I have a great sense of humor, and I love to laugh. Life is too short to be taken seriously! I always keep those around me on their toes! They never know what I'm going to say next, I love to have fun as well. I love to go to beaches and music and other cultures.I don`t have time to be playing games, so just come straight to me and we will do just fine. If you are a player, keep steppin because I`m looking for something / someone real in my life. I must just say though if all you want from me is sex, move on cause it`s not going to happen. I enjoy it but I want it to be special and with the right person.

Once l am in a relationship and committed to it, l will try do almost anything for that person, even if it may mean risking my own life. Many people often use the word Love too loosely, without really understanding what it means to love someone unconditionally.....That is the only way that l know how to love...
Some people want to say they love an individual, then when a crisis or some sort of adversity arises, they flee, and are nowhere to be found.. lf l decide that l love a man, then I'm going to be there for him, regardless of what happens.

About my sex life, Sex is important but intimately i have been with only two men. Its unfortunate that things didn't work out as planned. We can make Love outside and inside the bedroom. New things in bed help strengthen and renew the relationship. You could make me feel your sexual desire with your eyes, and it usually takes only a few seconds. I love when you look at me in the right way, when you gently put your hand in my hair. I like those kisses with closed mouth, like in the movies. They are like a preliminary, and make me thirsty for what is going to follow.

I will end it here my dear, I will be very grateful if you could reply to me back and tell me what you have in mind and what you think of me. Thank you very much for coming, Take very good care of your self and have a blessing day.

Vida.