Letter(s) to Jim (Iraq)

Letter 1

Hello Dearest One,
How are you doing there...I hope you are doing very good over there...Its very nice to hear from you...I am very happy to meet someone like u..Jim well before i proceed i would also like to introduce my self to you I'm a 28 years old female,am single with no man and no kids in my life...am looking for a man to share my life with i am single and am 5.7ft tall,138 lbs,black hair...I am from Virginia in the part of the USA...Jim.I am currently in a nursing school in Ghana and i am Training people to be a nursing expediency to know how to take care of sick people...i really feel very bad when ever i see sick people...

I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle exercising and some sort of jogging I Joge for 3-4 days a week and eating healthy ,My favorite color is Blue,white,green and pink..i don't smoke and i don't smoke also..

I have several hobbies and wish I could find more time to pursue those.. such as Swimming,Browsing the computer,Dancing and Reading . I would like someone to share that with as well as He shares His interests with me...

I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of Humor, Fairly,Easy going and I don't think that I'm too critical about things,but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work.

As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life,but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well.

I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better..I'm not one who cheats in a relationship one man is enough trouble .

I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2,3 or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is not working...

I do not expect a man to be a servant to me spending all his time working and cleaning. I believe there is give and take in a relationship and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do Laundry, Cooking, Cleaning and I have no problem doing that.

I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return. I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or play me.

Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses.

Sorry if that sounds harsh and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing but I'm being upfront and honest about that, So you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well.

I hope that you are upfront and honest with me as well. I realize that I am 28 years old and that you might be somewhat older than me if you would still like to correspond that's fine we will see how things go after we get to know each other Well.

I hope that this lets you know a little about me and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical harsh or mean sounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we are all human we all make mistakes) but I also don't like being taken advantage of.

I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning that way nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together.

It doesn't mean that it's any body's fault it's just that they are too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. Hope I didn't scare you off..i would also like to hear from you and i want to let u know that i am serious in getting to know more about..

Are you really ready to set up a relationship with??....I am looking forward to get to know more about you....what food do you like most and what do you do for a living?? how long have you been at this for searching....Jim.Your age is very good to me in a relationship age means nothing what is needed most is the love and trust from each other..
Well i am going to send you my pictures for you to see more of me.. am looking forward in getting to know much better about you.take care and i hope to hear back from you soon..have a blessed day...I hope to hear back from you soon..bye for now.........Mitla

Letter 2

Hello Dearest One..its very nice to hear from you..I hope you are doing very good over there..i would like us to have a serious communication where we can all get to know more about each other and see where things can lead us to because am very serious looking for someone to share my life with..so if you are also serious then contact me back and give me your email address where we can start communication good to get to know more about each other..tale care and have a blessed day...Mitla

Pls what can of job do u do.b'cos i need some can take care of me.Honey send me some of ur piss so that i see u.....Mitla

shemitla@yahoo.com