Letter(s) to Thomas (USA)

Letter 1

Hey , how are you doing? This is Lovelyn from Okcupid, you dropped me your e-mail address, I am just testing if this works... let me know if it does, tell me about yourself? looking forward to hear back from you.

Letter 2

Hello Thomas,

How are you today...??? I pray you are doing great...!I read your Very interesting profile, which I enjoyed very much. You sound very sincere and special. If possible, I would love to get to know you. I decided to join okcupid because of the loneliness time I experience last year until now; I pray things work out...

More about me I am single never married ,born in Miami beach, Florida obtained my degree in the University of South Carolina ( USC ),and recently reside in NOLA. I find very much peace and tranquility there.
I am into the Sales of Sculptures, beads, gold, etc...I’m the one and only born child of my parent, 5`8" who was born on May 25th, with a athletic build, mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening, God Fearing, and a positive person. I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener. my motto in life is "Life is to be Enjoyed" but in reality i can't really enjoy life by myself as i would love to have someone to share and enjoy life with me. I enjoy chilling with my love once, I like going to the movies(Cimemas), or watching movies in my room, I like camping, fishing swimming, listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling, going bowling and also a good cook, I can make crepes, pasta, Italian, and anything from scrape and my favorite are chips with chicken, shrimp, crab and rice. I also am looking for someone to share the rest of my life & grow old with! I have a great sence of humor.....I'm a Romantic at Heart I figure I'll treat people how I WANT to be treated. I'm the kind of woman who's curtious, I give 100% attention for the right man, being a one man woman, say the word thankyou..... I would like to be a Wife & a Mother also......& reading this letter should tell you about my character........

I am really interested in wanting to know about what makes you the special person you are today, I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me. So come on and share it all with me. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential.

I know that there is no barrier too great for God, when He chooses to bring two people together; I am at a point in my life where I would always be honest with the chosen one, and be there with the one God has for me 24/7.

Well I'll bring this letter to a close........Thanks for taking the time for coming on this sight.....I just want you to know the WHOLE story about me....ask me anything & I'll answer it truthfully.....a realationship isn't nothing without trust....I will be earnestl waiting for your letter!

It is better to try and fail than to give up and never know if you could have succeeded.
Sincerely YOURS........


Letter 3

Hi Thomas ,

I was glad to receive a nice letter from you, giving me more of a look into your life, it actually made my day! You sound like all I want, you are my perfect match. I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today. The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with you, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so when I do you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions.

I decided to move to NOLA because of my business and I need privacy for my future, I have lived here for a month and weeks now, the worst part of it is I have been unable to meet the right man yet because of my wants. I believe that our faith is the very foundation of our lives, and also of a great relationship that will endure the test of time, I am looking for a man that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need, stand by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in every way, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,constantly reactive, and treat me right, I hate cheating/double dating for that I am a one man woman... I know you will think what is a pretty lady like me doing on here... Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise.

Dear The very reason I am interested in establishing a friendship with you is because I feel I have a lot to offer you in the way of a friendship and I know I have a lot to share with you that will be of interest to you and even some things that will surprise you. I am very much a woman of substance and I am very unique in today's society because I live my life through my spirituality and through the word of God and because I have such a strong understanding of what I feel my role in life is suppose to be. I am a woman of integrity and my word is my honor!. I have very high standards for myself and my life is all about providing love, peace and happiness to others. For you to get a better understanding of me picture a waterfall in your mind and instead of all the water overflowing it is all the love and passion I have in my heart to give to others who are deserving, as the love and passion has an endless flow coming out of my heart.

Where others write many people and keep there messages short because they are all about how many they can write, I am the opposite and very selective in whom I choose to write and I like to give them my very best even if it is in a long letter such as this. I know the type of person who I want to build a friendship with so I am willing to put the time and effort in my messages to show that to you.

I look forward to hearing from you with anticipation.
"For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
Jer 29:11 (NIV)
Warmest Thoughts,

Letter 4

Hi Thomas, I feel real good checking my mail to read from you again, you are the reason to my happiness now, I am happy you are interested in learning more about me , I have been single for years, because am yet to find that special one to share my life with , I am presently in Cairo ( Egypt ),is not just a visit ,am here on business trip, am here to buy gold, sculptures and some paintings , it is cheaper down here compared to other part for the world, I inherit this business from my late parents , it has been an interesting business. About my family it’s a long story to tell and touching that make me share tears whenever i remembered the past. I will keep this short, I came out from a good combination of two, my Dad is from Bahamas while Mom is a native of America. I am the one and only child of my parent, I will count it ,I have a big Family because I don’t know much about my Dads family in the Bahamas while my moms part is very small...Unfortunately I lost my parent same day, same time, same moment by a car accident, this happened about 8years ago, since then I have started to live my life by myself and not depending on my family, although I still miss my Mom because of the courage and advises she use to give to me about life , but I am glad I am whom I am today.

About my past relationship, I have been into 3 relationships and those are also my only sexual partners I have ever had. 2 of my relationships ended because of my partners betrayal and infidelity (cheating) and the other 1 ended because the love was not there to grow. I know this sounds strange to you but as I wrote above I have not been sexually active now for 2 years, ever since then I live my life through the word of God and through my spirituality, and I refuse to have sex with someone if I am not in a relationship with them and my last relationship ended over 2 years ago. My reasoning which I understand is very strange in today's world, but my belief is my heart and soul, and the passion that is in it is very unique and special, so I made the decision and made a promise to God that I would not be sexually active for the sake of just wanting sex, or to have sex for someone else’s own self gratification. Knowing the passion that is contained in my heart and soul is very unique, I made the decision to abstain from sex because I want this special gift to be shared with the person I am dedicating the rest of my life to, as his Wife and the mother of his children.

I can cook pretty good ... I love red wine, French table wine and garlic bread. I've been working out more regularly than I had been, and eat healthy food...I don't do drugs, and I like who I am..
Although I think a terrific man would bring out the best in me...I'm a believer in God who pray every blessed day , I am a good catholic , I attend church weekly, and try to do the right things every day...I dont worry about what people think of me...I know how to treat a man well still yet I was betrayed by my own best friend, the longest relationship I had ended when I found out that he was seeing my best friend behind my back. He`s now engaged and I wish him the best luck.
That was the single biggest struggle of my life. I cared about him with all my heart, but it obviously wasn`t right...my goals and dreams are to live a good life, happy home blessed with beautiful kids with someone that believes in unconditional love.

Thanks again for writing me. You take the time to give your messages a personal touch and I really appreciate the effort. I can only hope that I don't end up being a disappointment to you. I can hardly wait for your next message. You've really made my day. As I'm ending this email I'm mentally giving you a hug. Have a great day and Take care sweetie.

I am really excited opening myself up with my past. But we all have one and we must learn and grow from our mistakes or they will overtake us in our own folly.

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.


Letter 5

Sweetheart,I just want you to know that I very much appreciated receiving your letter every moment i check my mail. You are a very special person who I SERIOUSLY want to explore the possibility of building a long term friendship with, that will in time turn into a marriage and family. That is my dream, and I hope to make it come true with you!. In my heart I feel you have all the qualities it takes to make me very happy...

It is very important for me to build a life of stability, security, and opportunity for the special person I hope to share my thoughts, feelings, experiences, dreams and fantasies with, and to offer the best in opportunities for any children that might be included in my life and that is my focus at this time and I also do enjoy my job. Professionally, I have once been an accountant before facing the carrier I have always prayed for .I do travel outside of the States to buy Art Sculptures, craft, beads etc and get it ship into the States for sales at a very profitable price. this have make me travel a lot , I do travel once in 4-5months, i have been to Spain , Finland , Italy , Ireland , France , China , England , Australia and my first time in Africa country. There is so much in this world to see and I want to see as much of it as I can and it is always more fun when you are with someone. I will be back to the state next weekend.

Honey in me you are going to find a woman that was blessed with an over abundance of passion to give to the ones I share my heart and soul with. For you to really know me you will have to experience me, as the love that makes up my heart is like a waterfall, where the water never stops flowing down. In this case my heart is the waterfall, and the love and passion that flows endlessly is representing the water. I am a very unique person for many reasons, but one of those is the fact that I can never get enough of romancing that special someone.

Thank you again for giving me the opportunity to build this special friendship with you!. You will be rewarded for it through the passionate love that makes up my heart and soul!. I am so excited to be able to do what I do best and that is romance you with all the passion that makes up my heart and soul!. My special friendship with you is something I want to make permanent and eventually build into a family to call our very own!

"Though miles may lie between us, we're never far apart, for friendship doesn't count the miles, it's measured by the heart."

Directly from my heart to yours!
Your Future Queen! (I hope!)