Letter(s) to Joel (USA)

Letter 1

Hi Joel,
thanks for telling me more about yourself,so how are you doing?I hope you are really having a nice time out there...How is work and how has life been treating you over there?I'm new at this online dating cos i was introduced to it by a friend and you are the first person im meeting online...Anyway,thanks for hitting me up with a message,i appreciate it...So how's everything been with you?I think I'd take this chance to tell you a little about myself...im Sarah Lister 25 years old going to 26 5'7 tall...I am single with no kids and currently seeking for a relationship,but not rushing myself.My dad is from USA,VM and mom is from Spain.I'm presently working as a nurse attached to Unicef....

I care,

Sarah

Letter 2

Hi Joel,
I'm fine and thanks for telling me more about yourself...well im an RN nurse attached to the UNICEF and im presently on a working trip with the UNICEF team on a mission to war ravished countries in western Africa and we are going to be back this month..Things are going well for us out here and I hope we can meet up then when i get back.I enjoy going to pool, watching movies,dancing mostly salsa, playing video games, reading magazine and novel. I have passed through a lot being in a relationship and wouldn't allow the past to ruin me again, I believe failure teaches success and building my future with the experience I had. I believe inside looks would determine if couples are compatible, though attraction is part of it but the most important thing that does it all is personality traits.I am seeking for a man that's caring,understanding,faithful,honest, trustworthy,patient ,supportive ,gentle,responsible and intelligent. I don't know what you still wanna know,but I'd be glad if you ask...Your turn? TTYL...Take care of yourself and be safe...

I care,

Sarah

Letter 3

Hi Joel,
Yeah im in Africa now,Actually i was posted to West Africa after our mission in Liberia,Iraq,and Sudan...So UNICEF posted me and a UNICEF team to come down one country called in west Africa...This is my first time of coming over here,but they look at us like angels...the people are so lovely...My dad is dead.Oh i wish i had someone back home to talk but unfortunate i have no one...My mum left me after dads death and got married to another man in Perth which i don't get to see her again...I was raised by my aunt who is now caught up in drugs and alcohol,i really love her and its pains me that she chose to live that way that was why i decided to stay alone and work with my team. cos i didn't feel comfortable living with her anymore..I just had to tell you about my personal life,bcos i want you to know what i'm facing in life.But anyways i'll not and i'll never allow that to pull me down/back in life...I just have to be strong and move on in my life...I pray the Lord guides and protect me and lead me through the right path...my friend told me that she meet her husband online that i should try it...I'm new at this online of a thing cos i was introduced to it by a friend out here in the camp.You are the first person am meeting online and i hope you will not hurt me cos i want to be your best friend and i also need your advise in life and your support as well to achieve my goals. and i don't want to be hurt any more...

I care.

Sarah

Letter 4

Hi Joel,
Wow! Thanks for the lovely email and thanks for taking your time to email me and tell me a lot more about yourself again,that's really nice of you and i appreciate that...im the only child of my parents,and i only keep in touch with m aunt cos she look after when i was young...i have a home in Vermont,but i would like to meet you in person when i get to the state...im coming back home this month,but i dont know the exact date cos ill be informed...Anyways, I really love all you have to say about yourself,i see you have a really bright prospect and i like your outlook on life...I can see you have such a wonderful goals in life,that's really good and i pray you achieve all of your goals real soon...Well I'm sorry i cant give you a proper reply now as i have to go to bed so ill have to send you an email when i wake up. But that doesn't mean you shouldn't send me an email back when you get this:). I'll have to spank you if you don't.lol...I have to go now though...Take care of yourself! Be safe

I care,

Sarah

Letter 5

Hi Joel,
I'm always happy to read your message too and you sound like a lovely man..im happy that i would be coming home soon,this is my third month here...i was born in the State and i grew up with my aunt after my dads death..my job makes me happy and you cos Ive been always on smile since we've been exchanging email...my best food is Sea food,well i work seven hrs in a day,Monday till Saturday...Unicef are the one to post us to different countries...im always off job for a month,yeah i like dogs...I don't have to spank you cos you've replied back,im keeping the spanking till we meet...Well,sorry about the last time that i couldn't give you answers,i was running late for duty then.As per the questions i asked here are answers. Well,one of my my goals is to have a very happy and God-fearing family in the future with lovely kids and also have a successful career and run a midwifery clinic for pregnant women,its really something i have always dream of and im really working hard towards that direction. I also want to have a very happy family,a happy home with 2 kids,a boy and a girl.lol.How about you?...I'm sure that cant be complete without a honest,responsible and caring husband,someone who really know the true meaning of what we call a Family. Well,hopefully fair enough everything works out good for me:) . Anyways,I see relationships as one of the most natural things that can happen in life and i believe a good relationship is built on trust,honesty,togetherness and prayers. I have had my fair share of relationships and i have been hurt too but it doesn't put me off me totally its only made me wiser. I like having fun and i like going to the beach to watch the sunsets with my man and also going for a long walk on the beach with my man. I really like that and i like privacy a lot too but it just have to be with my man:). Much to say but so little time...I have to jump in the showers now and then get something to eat and get some rest..I'll be hoping to hear from you soon..Take care of yourself and get back to me when you can...

I care,

Sarah

Letter 6

Hi Joel,
Thanks for the comments,im stopping this job as soon as i settle down with my man...cos i don't have to be leaving him behind and go to other country...so how are you doing?Well, I went around town yesterday when i was on break from work with some of the natives out here and i was really surprise and shocked about how people live out here,everything im seeing out here everyday makes me thank God and its makes me appreciate my status of being who i am,i mean me having a different background compared to theirs. I'm not saying that to criticize them or being a racist or anything of such but just to express what I'm saying to you so you can understand.Thats all! .I'm a very good girl with the fear of God at heart,though i didn't live with my parents cos my father died when i was young and mom got married to another man which i don't get to see her again so i had to live with my Aunt in which gave me the time to do whatever i want. I mean to be a bad girl and do anything ,but im very glad i didn't do such thing,instead i chose to be a very good girl with the promise of being someone great in life..I'm a goal oriented person and im really working hard towards achieving my goals and I'm sure God will definitely help me out on that:) . Well,I hope you had a nice and fun filled night unlike me out here though. Take good care of yourself and be safe .Have a blessed Day ahead of you

I Care,

Sarah:)

Letter 7

Hi Joel,
Thanks for the compliments and for the lovely words,well i don't really have much to say to you right now...i just want to tell you a little more about my work...UNICEF works for children rights,supports,survival,protection,and development through education, advocacy,fund-raising/ or donations.UNICEF which stands for The United Nations Children Fund helps children living in poverty in developing and war-torn countries .UNICEF is the world's child survival authority...UNICEF is helping kids in over 150 countries mostly African countries and territories. UNICEF's work includes immunizing and educating boys and girls in war ravished countries , and protecting them from the terror of abuse and also protecting them from war and neglect...Well enough said!. I have to go now but i'll be hoping to hear from you real soon but until then,take good care of yourself and have a nice time and be safe!:)

I care,

Sarah :)

Letter 8

Hi Joel,
I went to school of Nursing and my best music are blues,hip-hop,,rap and some metal...i like romance movies and epic...thanks for the comments you make on my job...you sound lovely and i wanna meet you and be with you...i just hope you wont hurt me cos i don't wanna be jilted like my last relationship...my last relationship is something i don't really like talking about cos i don't like to remember it...But I'll definitely tell you about it cos i believe is a way of knowing each other much better.But anyways,My last relationship lasted for almost 2 years and some weeks but basically i think he got tired of me and decided to try new things. After 2 years of being the relationship,he started to find fault for everything i do and i still yet i tried all my possible best to make things change but he just made things worse.But instead of him to have told me that,he just decided to act on that and the only way he could do that was to hurt me by having an affair with another girl which i got to find out and that was when he told me he doesn't need me anymore right in front of the other girl i caught him with...That made me very very miserable and i just couldn't believe such thing could ever happen to me:(. I like being honest in anything i find myself doing..I have always been very honest in my past relationships but what hurt me is that i don't tend to get that honesty back in return from my partner,its really stress me out but its just make me know much more about life...I was very honest and loyal to my ex and everything was going smooth until he started changing is character towards me,i talked to him to stopped that cos i made him know i understand what was going on then but he didn't,and i guessed we weren't comparable anymore so we had to call off the relationship cos he wasn't honest to me,i really wanted to do something serious with him but i guess he was not ready for that.. I have been single for some months now but i don't want to rush into any relationship cos i don't want the same thing that happened in my last relationship to happen again,i want someone that i can always call my own and my own only cos i'll be his own only too. I want someone who's really ready for a serious relationship and ready to prove to me that it pays to respect,love and cherish a woman and I'll definitely prove to him back that it pay's to be honest to a woman. I want my next relationship to be my very last one which i have been praying to God about and I'm sure he won't let me down. Well, I hope that makes sense to you...Well, I'm feeling very weak and sick now.:(. I really need some rest and then find something to eat. I'll be hoping to hear from you real soon though but until then take good care of yourself and have a nice time and fun filled day even if i don't. I think I'll have to go and see the doctor today if this persists. I have to go now though. Be safe and talk to you soon!

I Care,

Sarah:)

Letter 9

I'm sorry to hear about your last relationship,we've both been treated bad in our last relationship and it has makes us stronger...I'm sick and i got to figure out somethings today. The doctor said i got sick cos of the food i ate here..I knew that already but i don't think i have any other choice than to just eat the food they serve us here..The first time i ate the food i got really sick so i had to buy my own food stuff for myself and i have been doing that ever since ..But what pains me most is that everyone out here is eating the food and nothing is happening to them..My food stuff finished some weeks back and that was why i have been eating the food they serve us out here which is what made me sick..The doctor advice me to get my one food stuff since that's what i have always done until some weeks ago,i asked the camp commandant if she can help me in getting the food since we're not allowed to move out of the camp site cos of the fighting going on outside the can and she said she can help me get it since she's a native out here but where the problems lays is that we haven't been paid yet,though I'm working as a voluntary worker out here but i will be paid some amount of money when im back home but right now i don't have any money on me to buy my food stuff for myself. I'm really broke right now and i need to get some food stuff for myself cos i don;t want to eat the food they serve us out here anymore. Its making me sick and I'm scared:( ..I'm just confuse right now and i don't know what to do:( But anyways, I hope you've been having a good time unlike me out here though,things aren't working fine for me down here at all and its really making me very sad and unhappy. Anyways,i have to go now as I'm tired of typing and boring you out.Do have fun and have a nice day even if i don't as I'm sure i won't :(

I care,

Sad Sarah:(

Letter 10

Hi Joel,
im sick cos the the food they serve us here is mainly their local food here and sometimes bread and tea and all that messy food. I had to buy my own food stuff sometimes back since i couldn't eat the one they serve us here but my food stuff finished some weeks back and that's why i had to eat the food they serve us here since i haven't been paid yet. I'm sick and i don't want to eat the food they serve us here anymore but I'm broke right now and i don't even have any money on me to buy my own food stuffs.:( I have been trying to patch up things, but it's getting out of my hands now i don't really like getting too forward though but things has been hard for me out here so I just have to I ask you for a little favor,I'm sure you know i need to get some food stuff for myself out here but i cant cos i haven't been paid yet..So i thought i should ask if there's anything you can do for me,i mean if you can help me with some bucks so i can use it in getting some food stuffs for myself out here and also pay the debts i owe,I'll really appreciate that and i promise to pay you back if you don't mind but that's gonna be when i get paid..I'm working as a voluntary worker here though but I'll be paid some amount of money when i get back home which is just to tell me thank you for a job well done..I'll pay you back from that when am paid. Please try and understand me,i really need a helping hand out here and i hope you can work something out for me real soon..I hope im not too forward but i just wanna be open with you...I hope to hear from you soon and until then take good care of yourself and have a nice time and a nice day even if i don't as I'm sure i wont cos of whats happening to me right now:(

I Care,

Very Sad Sarah:(

Letter 11

You called me scam?oh my god...im not using any means or advantage to get money from you...you don't trust me or what?so all you said about yourself was all a lie?how i wish to call you but my phone is faulty,it fell down and i cant make or receive from it...and i don't have any money to call from a pay phone cos its expensive here...you can keep your money if you don't believe me,thanks for telling me your mind...i never believe you can say this to me...

Letter 12

I cant call from a pay phone here without paying money...love without trust is nothing,and i believe every of your words and i want you to believe me too...even if you don't send me money that wont stop me from not talking to you...you don't want to help me cos you don't trust me,i ask you for an assistance and you asked me to call you first when you knew i had no money...i need to stop here and rest.

Letter 13

I'm not feeling fine and i don't come online that much.