Letter(s) to Eric (USA)

Letter 1

Hello Angel
Thanks for the Warm Heart mail.How are you doing today good i guess anyway I'm doing fine here as well...I just want to tell you more about me.I will like to get to know all about you as well.. Here are some More about Me,I am a single female never married and have No Kids,am ready for serious relationship but looking for a true love we could be the one of my heart after i receive your reply.I am new on this Online dating stuffs,Cos a friend of mine introduce it to me.. Have been Hurt many times and I have a lot of experience in relationship, But I don't want to Get Hurt anymore cos it was a very Bad thing ever Happen...When dating or getting to know someone for the first time I reflect to a quote form one of my favorite movies "Hope Floats", "Little scary at first...little sad in the end...but it's what's in the middle that counts"Now I guess a question will come to your mind(Why is she Single)isn't it...ok ok,I used to have a boyfriend but I broke up with him,I caught him on bed with my best close friend,you know how that is,it's a SHOCK,lol. and thats Make me Feel Sad and I don't think I can be Love anymore. But I have to give things a try Just to know where it will lead to...so this led me to break up with him,was I right by that decision???I seek for a complete honest man,who will come home to me,love me,adore me,a strong man with a strong heart who will want our relationship to last forever,a comppassionate man,one with good heart and know how to handle matters,I want a lover not a fighter,lol I am committed life to living to the fullest and in growing as a person...
My family has always been very caring and supportive of my dreams and ambitions that I have challenged myself with.I am a Orphan,I was born in Los Angeles, My dad is from California and My Mum is from Nigeria,I dont konw the Relatives of my Father cos I choose to the Citizen of Nigeria,I do Live with My Parent in States and we Live in a Happily Family..not knowing i will lost them..before they died in Auto Accident, I am the Only Child of my Parent..I am 10yrs when my Parent Was dead..It make me Feel so Sad and Cry anyday i remember My parent Dead and Since when I lost my Parent things have been going to hard for me and also i do not have nobody to take Good care of me,,Then my granny In nigeria now came to Usa to Pick me Up..So i do not have any Option than to go back with my Granny In Nigeria for a Proper Care and support cos I have to Plan my Future and Have a Stable Life.i will be coming back to the state anytime soon, just want to find someone nice before i come because im ready to sacrifice myself the right man not the wrong man and make me happy.I Just finish Studies,I am Searching for a Job.. I do Study Accounting and I have My masters degree in it..Its a pretty good here in Lagos, Nigeria anyway but its a little bit sunny and I dont have Choice had to live here like that.
My wants and needs are distinguished. "I have never seen a Hurst with a trailer hitch"!!! I live each day to its fullest so I know I've lived a fulfilled life. I know it's important to have the things that make you happy and I strive each day productively to achieve those things.The most incredible thing is find someone to cherish those things together. Walking this life together not in front or behind each other but, side by side each other as a team (as I know there is no "I" in team)!!I will never steal, cheat or lie!!! However, . I will always evaluate every situation and apply it to what I have already learned and never make the same mistake twice!!!I want to find that special Man that I can love, trust, be caring, compassionate and romantic with. Someone who will treat me the way I treat Him. Be the answer to someone's prayers and to care for that person any place or anytime. A love that I can't live without!!!I wear my heart on my sleeve and will never cover it up no matter how many times it may hang there broken. I always walk through life by faith/hope and not by sight!!!!SORRY MY MAIL IS MEEK.......I wasn't sure how to elaborate about myself I envisioned myself opening hundreds of email from Man who think i'm their catch. I am picky about who I open myself up to. I have a good feeling about you!!! , upon your request and respond to you how ever often you like.Hmmmm I guess enough is being said about me.Thats all what I can say for now and I will be Looking to hear back from you so I can answer the Questions I ask from you in return... I cant wait to hear back from you and Knows where this will lead to.... Thank you and have a Nice Moment..p.s: Please send me some pics of you if you got any then i will send mine back
Tessy

Letter 2

What a good response to the questions.I adore you and I am opening my heart to you.Just need you to be ease with it.I feel so safe and secure in you.Can you be the man you have illustrated in your written,I hope you can.Since the question is reciprocal,my answers are below here:

What do you do for a living?
I work in a dress shop as a Sales girl but not working for now.

What do you seek for in a relationship?
I seek trust,honesty,understanding,sincerity,love and sharing,sharing the good times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us.

What sort of relationship you seek for?
Well,well, the relationship I want is one to be build on the solid foundation which is love and trust,I do believe with this 2 ingredients of relationship,so many relationships has come to success unlike ones built on falses and pretencies.

What are the basic qualities you seek for in a Woman?
The basic qualities are Honesty,Love,Trust.b/cos all this Key leads to Success in Relationship.

What interests you?
Wow,God interest me,all the things he has created interest me,the nature really do.

You ever been married?
No,I am very much single,never been married

Got kids?
No,never had any.

What do you do for fun?
I like playing basketball,playing billards,swimming,dancing,writing,reading,watching movies or tv.And i love the Beach too,either laying down around the beach Or walking along it.I love reading,listening to music,like action comedy movies,love meeting people far or near and been close to Nature.I do read Bible and pray all the time as well

Do you like public intimacy?
Public intimacy is my thing.I miss that though.I like to held and to walk while holding hand still,it's fun I guess.

How long have you been single?
Been single for about 2 years back.

What's being single like?
Being single is the dullest and lonely thing that has ever happened to me.

What are your life goals?(To have a good career a loving husband and children,cos children are the best thing to archieve in the world,when someone die,its better to have some children left so the family or generation will never die.)

What are your passions?(I am passionate about what I believe I wont give up on my family. I am a strong Woman but understand that relationships are about compromise. I am passionate about love, family, and standing up for what is right.)

How do you treat your Woman?
I treat him with respect,loyalty,adore him,treat him like the King.

Why do you need a Woman?
I need a man because I feel 2 people can make things worth while. it's always good to have a shoulder to lean on.God said in the garden of eden when He created man,He created woman out of man and He said they should live together as One

What is Trust to you?
Trust to me is being able to no matter what situation comes up know that my partner has our best interest in mind and we will be able to solve any situation together.I want to trust my man but i already trust in God

Can you love this Woman?
Yeah,most definitelty,I will love him.

What is love to you?
Love to me is everything,everything that has made up this world is love.God is love

Would you hit your Woman for any reasons?
I won't do that,I will rather discuss it over than fighting.

I hope I have answered the Questions to your satisfaction and i hope you really Understand all what i have just said. Well will be waiting to hear back from you soon.
With Love And Respect.Take care and God bless you.

Your friend

Tessy

Letter 3

Hello,
Thanks, I am so pleased to read your reply,it has warm my heart and I am hoping to get to always hear from you...How are u doing and your family? Am still backing on the word "Trust"i believe by the time we will both agreed and accept that the word Trust is very much important n our relationship...then we are Going to live a peaceful and prosperous life together with our family to come.I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be'Trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to been arned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within Yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for...yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that right person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk.All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... Even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and Move on.
Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothingis worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' Come to you. Without trust,you close your heart to the happiness and joy that truelove brings. It'sonly my experience. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it.This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust...that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the painby building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also Denies you the ability to experience happiness andjoy?Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that willfollow.For every one there IS a Someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life...Honey,you have become part of me…Bcos i have give to you the key to my heart and that’s to say i have given you my Trust...cos i need yours in return...God has blessed us tobless others....am so glad we met. I love you for everything you are to me.....One day..........I promise Dearest ....You have changed mylife completely. You're the one who makes me beautiful. You're the one who makes mestrong. You're the one who makes me so important; you're everything tome.How lucky I am to find a man like you. Thank God above us! Honey, I promise I will compensate you one day with the thing that you want the most.All that I can offer you is a family. A family thatbelongs to us; a family where we can share our ups and down and stay together till the day we die. Honey, that's all I can give ... I hopeyou like it,because I really wish that you were near me.if I can be your wife and your children's mum then this would make me proud forthe next 50 or 60years. Remember, you need to take care of me for 50 or 60 years and so you've got to take good care of yourself to do it.Dear ....., you're the only one that I want.
Yours Dearest

Tessy