Name: Elina Svietlova
Aka: Lina, Linary
Location: Kostyantynivskyi, Krasnolimanskiy, Lughansk
On web sites: Ukraine date
Report: I met LIna on line in a date site called Ukrainedate
and after 2 emails she sent me her phone number
saying she did not like to email
but would prefer to speak on the phone so she sent
me her number and we started to converse
she said everything I wanted to hear
sp after about 2 months of this I decided to go to ukraine to meet her
I told her to meet me in Kiev and immediately she asked me for
funds for a plane ticket as she was gpoing to fly from Lughansk to Kiev
so i went on line and checked, and she came back with the sum of $500
so I sent it to her
I then booked us a apartment with 2 seperate room in Kiev
and I flew to meet her
she met me at the airport with a taxi at my costs
got back to the apartment settled into each other room and started to go out
then next day i brought her breakfast in bed but remained a gentleman
I wanted to go out, but she wanted to sleep, so feeling a little tired
myself, I slept also as I had a long flight.
I noticed her luggage did not have a luggage tag from the airport, thats because she took the train for $50 and kept the other $450 for herself
so day 3 in Kiev I was up early around 8 and she slept until 1 pm
then took 3 hours to get ready and we went out by 4 where she took me
immediately to a very expensive store and picked out $1100 dollars worth
of cloths, and ased me to pay for them......like an idiot I did
then later at the apartment I asked to see whay she bought so she
took a minute and showed me, then said she felt funny as I wanted to see the cloths
she told me it is normal for men from other countries to come to Ukraine
and spend lots of money on girls, its in our culture.
so I said lets go out tomorrow morning early and she said
I have to sleep every day until 12-30 or 1 pm
so if you want to go out you can but I am gonna sleep until mid day
so I waited and waited and she got up at 12-30 took 3 hours to get ready
and we went out for dinner, now it is november and it gets dark by 5 pm in
Ukraine at this time of year.
so later that evening we got talking about relationships and she said it takes
her a long time to get close to someone as she
has to see how that person will treat her.
so realizing I was being used by a professional
I got up early then next day and moved out of the apartment and never saw her again
dont waste your time on Elina Svietlova, she is a user and taker of men.
Name: marina / maryna Grabova / Grabovaya
Location: saki, crimea, Ukraine
Address: stroitelnaya 21, saki 96500
Email: firstname.lastname@example.org/ email@example.com/ firstname.lastname@example.org/ email@example.comfirstname.lastname@example.orgemail@example.com
On web sites: about 10, she is on, name one and she will be there
Report: Yes call me Mr naive because it looks like that what I am, I know we all like to think we know what we are doing and can tell a scammers when we meet one but can we ?. It all starts one year ago when one night looking on the internet about the 28/10/2007( WITH MAYBE TO MUCH DRINK IN ME ) I thought I would look on a dating site, I had receiver a email off a Ukrainian girl, very nice young looking girl. But when I look up on the site she was not there. So I went on the site and sent some emails to girls, and I got a reply off the lovely marina with some photos of her what are about 8 or 9 years old, but I did not know that then !. Or is it maryna, Grabova or Grabovaya, I do not know she has lots of names, yes but it was very nice, so I sent back a email and it all went from there. I begun to think some think was going on because I would ask very simple questions and received nothing back on my questions. But maybe I am the simple one !! But the more now I think about it there were all copy and paste answers, but if your emailing 8 to 10 man you can not answers all of the questions. So it went on for a few weeks then came the, I would like to hear your voice and hear what you sound like so I phone and we got on very well on the phone and that was the beginning of my bad dream. After 4 weeks of emailing and phone calls came the when are you coming to meet me, I did not know because I go ski ing for 8 weeks in Austria, but she said you come or we do not go on, so I made flight from Frankfurt to Simferopol 18/1/2008. And to be honest we had a good time, and I fell in love with her. I went ski ing and made arrangement to see her again on my way home from Austria by Frankfurt and got a fight on the 20/3/2008. Then it came and I did not see it I got a email saying that your beautiful words cost little, they are not supported with acts, I judge men with acts not words, or maybe she got mixed with her words. And intend to say. I judge men with money who give me it and lots of it, not with love. And she had drawn the attention to the fact that it is a rule in the Ukraine for men who love a women to pay for all if in love. So the next email was. The mayor of the city of Saki has announced that the city dwellers of Sake will not receive hot water, so I am compelled to get gas boiler for water, and I do not have such sums of money, so I would be glad for 500 or 600 Euro, to help me out with it. So yes blinded by love and trying to help some one out I give her the money. And her answers was by falling in love with me 100%. So it just went on like that, all the time it would be by phone or email some mentions of a money situation that she was experiencing. And if you can not help you can not love me very much or are you just a greed boy. And she also know about how I could send the money by western union money transfer. And I did not know of them and did not know how to send it,, but marina did. I went to see her 4 more time in Saki and we got on very well as long as I was paying the full cost of all, (as I was) So the next thing to come up was can you help me decorate my apartment so yes as always I went to Saki and help her with her apartment with money and work, to improve her living situation. So all was going well, so I thought !! So next was lets get engage, to get marry, it is better for visa to be engaged. And buy big ring if you love me. Yes call me simple, but as always I did. Next paying for visa and fight to Kiev to get visa from UK Gov. I paid ?1500. But we got visa and all was looking well. Then she had to give her job up before she came to England so some more money to live on. Then the cost of fight to England ?600.But here I am thinking the girl I love is going to live with me for all my life so . She came to England on the 18/9/2008 and we had two very happy weeks together . We made plans for wedding, to get married on the 8/11/2008 so more jewellery to buy and designer clothes and lingerie, but I was in love with the girl to be my wife very soon, so ?600 on some clothes to keep her happy .a bit of money here and there. So we were getting on well but slowly the argument were coming more and more, than on the 28/10/2008 came the big one, and last one. It was not a problem for me, but for her it was the end, it could have been ok with a little chat but no she would not talk about it. It was the end for us. Just two weeks before our wedding day, what I had pay for. Not one penny of her money had been put in to the pot. Or was it just a good way to go home with all she had got out of me. So at 11PM she got pick up when I was in bed asleep and went from my house. Never to see her again or hear from her. I have try to sms her telephone her and email her. She just hangs up her phone when she hears my voice. And will not email me back. I had a look on the internet and her profile was still on it. She had been living with me and emailing other men. I could not believe. The last time I had a look she was on 10 dating agencys sites. Marina is always extraordinarily strong willed, with a determination and inner strength that sometimes makes her to behave in ways that are hurtful to those around her even if she had not intended to cause them pain. But if its ok for her who are you, she is number one in life not you But her whole deal is to get you to spend as much money as possible on her. And if she is not happy with it all. she can go home. With no cost to her. I know I am not the 1st man she has done this to, I know of 3 more !!! And she is the worst kind, she says she loves you, she is almost like an actress, and appears to know what you want to hear from her, but its all just lies and she is just cheating on you.. It has cost me about 5k but to be honest it not the money !! Its being in love and having a broken heart now,!! Or before she went she did try to blackmail me also, asking for $1000 to go home with because it was all my problem. Or she would make problem for me at home office, and make my name look bad on the internet.
I just want to stop her from doing this again , she totally destroys my heart.