Name: madeline rusk
Location: lagos, nigeria
On web sites: match.com
Report: I am beginning to look forward to meeting and knowing you, so that i can get to learn more about you. I want to take my time to really get to know you better and see how things work out between you and I. I just hope that things work well.
For me, I love arts, everything about arts. I love music as well. I like going to beaches in my Bikini, and sun bathing. I love going to movies, musical concerts and sometime go out for my dinner and I love window shopping. I also love cooking and reading in my leisure times, and most times, I just close my eyes and listen to music, while I reminisce.
And yes, I am also for real, because I dont have time for playing games around, as I think its very awful when someone hurt another's feelings. After I was hurt, I told myself that I would learn never to hurt or be hurt by any body again, and thats why I am hoping to find a man who appreciates a lady's true, deep feelings, and would make me feel loved, always.
Well, relationship can mean two things: 1, it can mean that we have a connection, which I think exists between two hearts that understand eachother, and merges together. 2, relationship could also mean to be romantically and sexually involved and I think that we could discuss and get to learn more abouit eachother when we get to that level. So, I think at this point, given the amount of time we have e-mail one another, we definitely have a friendship forming based on some external and internal similarities that are developing into a relationship that I hope will bring us a little closer with good intentions, and the potential exists for the relationship to evolve into something more significant.
I've been in several rapports where I was not fully appreciated. At a stage where I thought that my relation was going to end with happily ever after, I was hurt and it really did hurt. I'd like to meet someone who recognizes the little things I do for him and knows how to be appreciative. For instance, if I were to make breakfast in bed or draw a bath for my man,he could thank me by giving me a hug or a kiss. Or perhaps sending me a card or roses for no particular occasion just to tell me 'thank you.' I'm very appreciative of what people do for me and I reward them in my own little ways. To me, they are the little things that mean a great deal to me.
What does it really mean to be affectionate? I love a man who can display his affections, and does not have to conscious of where or how it is to be shown. I like a man who can express his feelings for me anytime and anywhere without having to be shy. And a person who knows how to be affectionate and romantic is a big plus. I love romance.
This may be an odd one, but I've learned that there are many men out there that are set in their ways. They have one way of doing things and are never open to suggestions or advices. Stubborn men are a major turn off for me, because I appreciate being able to share ideas with my man, and getting through dire times together. I like a man who is open to ideas, thoughts, and basically open minded. I think being receptive and this brings about sensitivity as well. A man who is ignorant, mean, and just plain insensitive is difficult to get along with.
I could say that I'm not afraid to display my emotions. I like saying exactly what is in my mind and that includes my feelings, too. I'd like someone who is sensitive and caring. If I'm sad, I'd like for him to be able to comfort me and cheer me up. He doesn't has to do much, but just knowing that he's there solacing me is more than good enough.
Have you ever had someone not stand up for you? I was deeply hurt when someone I once dated wouldn't not stand up for me, even after he told me he loved me. I would never allow someone to hurt my boyfriend or my husband, as I would always stand up for him. One thing I will always do for my man is to protect him. I would like to meet someone who will be protective of me.
I had never been married, and I hope to get married soonest, and take of my man like he is my world. I dont have any kids of my own right now, and I am hoping to someday make a plan for that with my man. I love being with kids and want kids; at least 1 boy or 1 girl ,i dont know if thats what you like or want ?I like listening to R&B, slows, country, and blues, and sometimes, depending on the occasion, Rap.
So,what do you want us to call it between you and, are we starting a new relationship or friendship or what do you want us to call it. Well, I cant wait to read from you soonest. Hope you are thinking about me ?
I will look forward to your mail. Take care of you all the time.
--- On Thu, 5/15/08, tony visser wrote:
From: tony visser
Subject: Re: Hi!
Date: Thursday, May 15, 2008, 10:12 PM
Hey Madeline sorry for you loss. then you fiancee dose not deserve you. I know what you went throw my ex cheat on me a couple years ago and it sucks!! Well I am single, 31 never married have no kids just have not found the one for me yet. I am looking for in lady is someone beautiful in my eyes ,honest caring ,strait forward trustworthy .passionate, good commutator,open minded and will to take on the challenges that life throw at her . that cant sleep cant eat reach for the stars kind of love if it is still out there.I am a one woman man I will do any thing for the people that I care about.I have 3 sister and I am the youngest . my parent live e near by.I work on cars and truck by restoring them and making the look new again I work on a lot of fleet truck buy keeping the up and in good condition outside of work i like to do.........camping,coffee and conversation,movies,dining out,playing sports,traveling, sightseeing,watching sports,wine tasting,working on my house some times nightclubs and a little dancing not very good. LOL!! I am finding tat there are even so weird lady out there but only been on the site for a few weeks I am picky about the Lady's that I contact I know what i am looking for and I am pretty strait forward with them. I would love to get a cup of coffee with you sometime. I would love to talk on the phone or even text. Its up to you. my # is (209) 505 2705.