Letter(s) from Lorena Asp to Nada (USA)

Letter 1

Thanks for your reply and its so nice to hear back from you. I have not been much into this online dating ideas, am giving it a go for the first time in my life and i look forward to my achievement in finding the right man of my dreams.I decided to join online dating because of the loneliness time I experience last year until now and I pray things work out for me...

Well,I don't really have much to say about myself as they say a picture is worth a thousands words,I believe the more we get to know each other the more closer we become.I am single never married,born in Queensland (Australia), obtained my degree in the Queensland University,Australia, and recently reside in Los Angeles, California. I found very much peace and tranquility here. I am into Sales of Sculptures, Beads, Gold, etc...I’m 5`7" with an average build, mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening, God Fearing, and a positive person. I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener.My motto in life is "Life is to be Enjoyed" but in reality i can't really enjoy life by myself as i would love to have someone to share and enjoy life with me. I enjoy chilling with my love ones, I like going to the movies, or watching movies in my room, I like camping, fishing swimming, listening to music and dance to any kind of music, traveling, going bowling and also a good cook, I can make crepes, pasta, Italian, and anything from scrape and my favorite are chips with chicken, shrimp, crab and rice. I am a family oriented person and there is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself...

I am really interested in wanting to know about what makes you the special person you are today, I want to know more about your family, your background, your life experiences, past relationships, your goals and dreams, your interests, and anything else you want to tell me. So come on and share it all with me. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced. This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential.

I know that there is no barrier too great for God, when He chooses to bring two people together; I am at a point in my life where I would always be honest with the chosen one, and be there with the one God has for me 24/7.I look forward to hearing from you with anticipation.It is better to try and fail than to give up and never know if you could have succeeded.


Letter 2

Dear JL,

How are you today? Thanks for always getting back to me and its nice hearing from you.I want to thank you for showing a sign of respect in your message.Honestly,I am so happy to be communicating with a man of a noble character and charisma like you. I believe with God all things are possible because nobody is perfect except God who is the provider of all things and i believe there is a reason and purpose of our meeting on that site.

Well for start I'm a really simple lady,I'm easy to please, I don't ask for much, I just want to be there for someone special and have that someone special be there for me. I'm exceedingly respectful of the people around me, and I treat people better that I even expect them to treat me. I have a very high moral compass and I'm genuinely good.I have an outrageous sense of humor which I hope you'll get to see in time. Like i have written previously, I'm new to the online dating thing so I'm good with taking it slow and really getting to know you. I'm a patient, attentive, affectionate and emotionally available lady, who has a lot of love to give to the right man. My motto in life is "believe in me and I will not let you down". I'm big on coming through for my loved ones. Physically, I'm athletically fit.I work hard at sculpting the body that will make me feel proudest of myself to any man. I'm good matured,have no kid,have good intentions and I smile all the time, even when I'm down. I always try to look beyond the dark cloud for the silver lining. I don't necessarily consider myself an optimist, but I am always reasonably hopeful. Like right now I hope that we can continue to get know each other better cuss you definitely without a doubt rock! I just had to say that again cuss it's so true!!. Personally, I'm super duper responsible. I don't drink or smoke. I live absolutely debt free. I owe no one. I'm a saver and an investor. I don't want you to think I'm cheap though, cuss I'm not.

Hopefully, you'll get to see that as well. I'm honest, trustworthy and faithful. I believe integrity is who you are when no one is watching. I also trust the people I love totally. I'm not a jealous lady I just expect my man to respect me, the way that I respect him. And I have to be honest I really respect men just generally. In my past relationships I've always gotten behind my man and empowered him, being there for everything that he needs and more. I was taken for granted in my last relationships, and I really believe it's because I was too good to him. I was faithful to him and everything to him, and nothing I did was ever enough. Right now I want to be totally honest with you, even though this one is still so fresh. But he burned me! I walk around with that pain in my heart and just wish I could forget everything. What he did to me after I was nothing but good to him, I never thought he would do it, because I never thought about doing it to him.

Everyday as I'm healing I feel better about it because he really didn't deserve me. I was so shocked because never in a million years did I think that someone would cheat on me as am the type of lady that when am in love i always do love to the fullest and i always try to make my man the most happiest person on earth. I make a descent living, I'm fun to be around, respectful, a good conversationalist, considerate, passionate, understanding and patient, with a ridiculous sense of humor. I could barely sleep or eat...I was a total mess. What was so shocking is that in a relationship I absolutely give my all. I'm all about my man, and I'd do anything for him, plus I'd never cheat on him or hurt him in that way. But in the end, none of that mattered, he was selfish and only thinking of him self!! I still wish I could forget everything from that past cuss I still feel that pain. It kind of makes me afraid for the next time, but with love, nothing ventured is nothing gained, and like I said in my profile, I believe in love, so I plan on fighting and doing whatever it takes to have love in my life again. And you know what's interesting...I have forgiven him..

Now, I am searching for my life long partner to share a Great Life of Love with; romance, long slow kisses, feeling very special, intimacy, spirituality,pleasurable communication,dancing, meeting of the minds,opening a door for him, flowers,traveling and other exciting interests and adventures, A GREAT LIFE of LOVE!I am one who strongly believes in respect and that without respect,you cant experience true love and generate a healthy relationship.I believe it’s not just what you are like on the outside,but more about what you are like on the inside..I am seeking friendship first,(no game playing please) with someone who appreciates some of the same temperaments and interests I enjoy. That special someone is a man with integrity,is spiritually compatible with me,having similar beliefs and is responsible, intelligent, has a sense of humor, positive,is clean and neat in habit and appearance,romantic,passionate about living and loving.I would prefer that someone to show interest and be supportive. He should be financially secure, and always be himself.I like an adventurous person who likes travel, nature and enjoys being home. He is a man who is at peace with himself.I am hoping to connect with people of like minds to form friendship first and then leave the rest to the Universe. I'd like to find someone who's open,honest and easy going, A sense of humor is a big plus Ideally we'd have some shared interests and goals, as well as some similarities in opinion about what's important in life. Well, i wouldn't like to bore you with my book...lol. I would love to learn more about you gradually and see what destiny has turned for us.

Take care and look forward to hear from you again.

Your true friend,