Letter(s) from Anita Feister to Darrell (USA)

Letter 1

i will like you to tell me more about you if that will be okay with you

Letter 2

How are you doing and thanks for your email,i just got back from hospital where grandma is and it was nice hearing from you.

Its nice to hear from you and hope everything is well with you there,thanks for telling me more about yourself and you sound like someone i've been looking for and i would love to know more about you.

I am an energetic and sociable person. I appreciate decency and sincerity in a relationship between a man and a woman. The inner beauty is more important for me than the beauty of appearance. I wish to open a new world in the world of your soul. And if I understand you are the Only whom I am seeking, i share with you all your sorrows and joys,i will be your best friend and life partner.

I have to let you know aswell, that am an honest person as i have said, and i have to be honest with that, i don't have any boyfriend at present now and am not in any serious relationship.am a great giver because I so much believes in the Multiplied returns and that's why I dont lack anything. I never speak negatively about people, I take less and listen more to people and does not jump into other people's affairs.

I am very understanding,open minded with a heart of forgiving, loving and caring with sense of humor, hard working with cheerful character,honest,sincere,kind, warm and intelligent with good look

I'm looking for a man who will treat me special, open doors. All that old fashion stuff most women like. Communication is important to me. I want to be respected as much as I will respect you. I don't like secrets, truth is important in a relationship. I'm a great listener and I want someone who will listen to me. Even if we just turn out to be friends I'd still want to stay in touch with you. I am not looking for a loner. I want the next man to be himself to me the first time we meet. No hiding who you are and no hiding who I am. I'm also looking for someone who wants to take a lady out on the town dressed up or down. I want a man who can dress up or down and enjoy wherever we decide to go. Life is short, lets play...I can be shy and quiet at times, its not the person I'm with its just part of who I am.
I will be coming back to the state when my grandma gets better and i am willing to meet that right man and relocate with him because i have so much waited for that right man in my life and i hope thats you.

Hugs and Kisses

Letter 3

Hi Darrell,

Thanks for the reply and glad to hear back from you. I must say you look so charming and pretty and I'm wondering why a wonderful man like you haven't been swept off his feet till now. I am so glad to hear back from you and will want to know you more better.

I am Jenifa and i reside in Los Angeles. I am 5' 8 feet tall and 44yrs old.I am a teacher and i have been teaching for about 10 yrs now.My dad is a swede and my mom is from Australia.I have never been married and don't have kids. I lost my Boyfriend in Tsunami disaster in Indonesia in 2004 and ever since i have been lonely and though his death caused so much trauma in my life and thank God for saving me. He rescued me and make me a better person cus i almost died.
Right now i am thankful to God for saving me and i am moving on with my life and God has been the driving force in my life. My job is going smoothly and that is not all. I would love to have that special man who will be the king of my heart and complete me. I am a simple woman who is has love for everybody no matter the color. I am a christian and i was born a Catholic and i do believe so much in God and i am very spiritual and attend Church every Sunday. I am a honest woman who has always been sincere with whater i do and never cheated on a man before and i will never do that cus when i am in a relationship i always make sure my man never cry or get heart broken.
I think my hobbies are: Going to beaches, camping, watching movies, dinners, going to the cinemas and listening to all kind of good music,like classic,rock,country,jazz,soul,R and b and a little bit of rap. My favorite sports are Football,basketball,soccer,tennis and golf. I think that should be enough for now and will be looking forward to your response and i hope you find it in your heart to accept my friendship.

I am currently with my sick grandma here in London and will be back home latest next week.I will love to meet you on my return back home...I will love to get to know you better than this by sharing emails before we meet.

Keep in touch and tell me more about yourself...


Letter 4

Hello Darrell,

I am looking for a serious relationship with marriage being the ultimate goal! I am caring; compassionate; respectful; and I consider myself a gentle person..I treat men with respect and when I am with someone, I am totally dedicated to that person. Why should I be with you - well, only time will tell if this is our destiny..The last serious relationship that I was in was not good i keep myself for the right man , I am still single cos i know each one of us have the ability to love. For this is what life is based on, cause without love our lives will end sooner and unexpectedly. I am a single lady,never been married,no kids, I am also a very Romantic type,love to cuddle,hold hands while walking,I'm trustworthy so far as people tell me maybe I'm just laid back,lol...I also tend to have a good heart with so much of love to give and to receive,I love watching Movies,Television,listening to Music,Singing,Reading,Writing Poems,Swimming,playing Basketball,i like seafood too,Now I guess a question will come to your mind(Why is she Single, As Beautiful as she is )isn't it...ok ok, after my ex I got a boyfriend but I broke up with him,I caught him on bed with my best close friend,you know how that is,it's a SHOCK,lol...so this led me to break up with him,was I right by that decision???I seek for a complete honest man,who will come home to me,love me,adore me,a strong man with a strong heart who will want our relationship to last forever,a compassionate man,one with good heart and know how to handle matters,I want a lover not a fighter,lol...Hmmmm I guess enough is being said about me. and i don't believe in age,distance or race, what i believe is Love, well i am hoping to
hear from you.I want pure love.

I am putting this questions to you.....

What do you seek for in a relationship?
What are the basic qualities you seek for in a lady?
What sort of relationship you seek for?
What interests you?
Tell me more about your past relationship?
What do you do for fun?
Do you like public intimacy?
How long have you been single?
What's being single like?
Do you know I'm white and 44 years old?
How do you treat your lady?
Why do you need a lady?
Can you love this lady?
What is love to you?
Would you hit your lady for any reasons?
I'll hopefully want to know what your consent is about these questions.

I want to get to know you and meet you.
You are a darling.

Letter 5

Hello Honey,
I have deleted my profile from the Dating site, because we're getting along fine, because there is point talking to you and still keeping my profile on the Dating site, So i will like you to Remove your Profile from Seniorpeoplemeet dating site too. so that we can concentrate on Our Life Journey.

With Love


Letter 6

Hi Honey,

I would describe myself as a kind, generous, easy-going person. I love to laugh and enjoy funny situations. I enjoy traveling and the adventures of the outdoors. Getting away is important because I think everyone should see what else is out there. I also like going to the movies, theater, concerts, museums or a nice restaurant. But I am just as happy staying home . I would like to meet someone who has similar interests, but who can introduce different activities into my life,im sorry about all you went through in your past relationships.

I'm a simple woman who enjoy with the simplest things of this life, but I need a man to share with me this nice life.Serious relationship, I just want to love and be loved, Honesty, respect. Easy, pleasant, interesting I don't look for any adventure; I would like to meet a true man. The important thing is that we have understanding, respect and love for each other to share together needs, wants, desires and to make our plans, hopes, dreams come true. I have a full of heart to share with the right man.Very willing to keep a warm friendly home & family. he should have a desire to grow his career & be active in a professional field. We will have common goals in life & move forward with them together. he must be able to walk beside me in life, & be a very passionate & sexaul man for me. Are you my man?
My ideal match would be someone who is kind and considerate, generous and thoughtful, easy-going and funny. Someone who is not chained to their job, their computer or cell phone would be a plus. Nothing wrong with being a go-getter, but there has to be a good balance, don't you think? Someone who is mature, responsible and intelligent. Someone who puts butterflies in my stomach.. Someone who effortlessly makes me laugh. Someone who isn't afraid to make a decision if needed. It would be nice to find a relationship where each person's personality and attitude compliments the other. I also think building upon a friendship first is the way to go AND THANK YOU DELETING YOUR PROFILE YOU ARE MY WORLD.

What do you seek for in a relationship?
I seek trust,honesty,understanding,sincerity,love and sharing,sharing the good times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us.

What sort of relationship you seek for?
Well,well, the relationship I want is one to be build on the solid foundation which is love and trust,I do believe with this 2 ingredients of relationship,so many relationships has come to success unlike ones built on false and pretenses.

What are the basic qualities you seek for in a guy?
The basic qualities are Honesty,Love,Trust.

What interests you?
God interest me,all the things he has created interest me,the nature really do,i also love dancing,singing,cooking,travelling,hiking,camping and anything outdoors and i also love kissing,cuddling and holding hands but i need that right man so we can do alot things together.

You ever been married?
No,I am very much single,never been marriedGot kids?
No,never had any.

What do you do for fun?
I like playing basketball,playing billiards,swimming,dancing,writing,reading,watching movies or tv.
Tell me more about your past relationship?
Had only 1 Relationship in my life.

Do you like public intimacy?
Public intimacy is my thing.I miss that though.I like to held and to walk while holding hand still,it's fun I guess.

How long have you been single?
Been single for about 3 years back. About my past relationship,i was engaged with my ex for 7 months but he got married to my bestfriend who was also my roommate so since then i have been lonely,i went through alot of heartbreak but i am happy i am able to go through it and now i need that right man in my life and hope thats you

What's being single like?
Being single is the dullest and lonely thing that has ever happened to me. But i want to try to cool down and find the right man to fill the blank space.

How do you treat your guy?
I treat him with respect,loyalty,adore him,treat him like the King.

Why do you need a guy?
I need a guy because I feel 2 people can make things worthwhile.it's always good to have a shoulder to lean on.

Can you love this guy?
Yeah,most definitely,I will love him.

What is love to you?
Love to me is everything,everything that has made up this world is love.

Would you hit your guy for any reasons?
I won't do that,I will rather discuss it over than fighting.

I also lik sea foods and i am open to any so far it tastes nice
Hoping to hear back soon and hope i answered all questions i asked you and let me know what you think about it,your answers were well written and you sound like the man i've been seeking all my life..

Hugs and Kisses

Letter 7

Hi Honey,

Thanks for being open with me and i am also doing the same and am going to take my time to tell you everything you need to know about me,i want a man that is not too hurt and not too hard to trust again and can give himself to a wife to be loved and taken care of in a way that will bring a joy of life and an appreciation he will look forward to every day. There is a lifestyle of marriage in the Lord that gives life and purpose to being married and can really be enjoyed,I feel I am a woman of integrity and a family provider.. I think I am kind in heart and tender of soul. I am proud in the quality of what I do and responsible. I believe in taking care of a man and treating him as a gift that God meant him to be. I also understand that making love is not just a physical act of two bodies.. I would want someone that is kind, caring, loving, enjoys life, one that knows there is stress in life..but doesn't let it run him life, one that isn't afraid to show and express their feelings, someone that agrees to disagree at times. I love going to the beach,dancing,swimming,playing games like golf,chess,card and pool,I am also looking for a very nice,honest,kind,god fearing man,trustful,faithful,loyal,caring and loving man that we are going to spend the rest of how life together.

My upbringing was to be a woman at all times. I am a well polished diamond. I don’t like to play games, no wasting anyone’s time, life is to short. Well I 'll tell you a bit of my background. I was born and raised in Indiana a fourth generation .It was much different when I was growing up being the only child but it was wonderful, I love life with my heart and I promise to love my man with my soul. I am loyal above all, very intelligent, funny, well adjusted. I enjoy going out as well as staying in. I miss having a man on my life ,i like watching, laughing, listening, caring, watching, kissing, holding, rubbing each other sore backs, necks, heads. Just being together, looking into each others eyes and know what each other is saying without speaking a word. I am a passionate woman and l love to be affectionate. In the long run it is companionship and enjoyment of what each person loves to do. The compatibility to enjoy it together. I am not into lust, rather into finding chemistry that will lead to love and monogamy. Most woman today are all about self gratification and not concerned about tomorrow. That is shallow and leads to a very empty, unfulfilled life. If I should capture your heart you will have, my heart that offers that deep unconditional love we all desire. My boundless personality that will keep you laughing and loving. And my soul which you will have captured forever. I am one of a kind. If this is what you desire for the rest of your life, search no more.

You are such a gentleman, I also miss having a man in my life, I can say that I truly miss having time to cuddle and caress, kissing, just being with that special man. I like to stay home sometimes because I don't get to do that much. I am very loyal to all who know me, I have never betrayed anyone's confidence, it is a part of who I am. I am think I am intelligent, I am an honor student. I take commitments very seriously, if you want good things from life you have to have goals. My main goal has been to find a loyal, caring, affectionate soul mate. I want to find a soul mate that is caring, kind-heated, passionate, loving, wonderful, intelligent, passionate about what they do in life as well as their relationship,You are so amazing, I never thought I would find a man who truly is the genuine, kind, loving, loyal, and caring,respect is so important, if you can find all that once in your life you are so very fortunate,I think you are all that and much more, you are truly amazing. You are one of a kind. I would like to get to know more about who you are and where you come from. I really like what I know, you are one of a kind. I have not experienced such wonderful conversations with anyone like this. It truly tells a lot about you.
I am so full of love and affection that I have been waiting for such a special man, I have never let my standards down even when I was told they were too high, I just prayed that someday I would find all the wonderful things that I wanted. I don't let people into my life easily, nor do I let them out of it, I am true and loyal.
To be honest Im looking for a partner in life. There is no physical criteria except I must be attracted to them. i realize attraction is more than skin deep though. Im not looking for someone to take care of me but someone to share me with,I am looking for my partner for life. Someone to care for someone to love and share with my hopes my dreams my sorrows. Someone who knows a relationship is a work of art something that you strive together in building and molding it into place. I miss the touch of a man, and sharing affection with a man. you might laugh but I miss every aspect that comes with being that significant other for another I miss talking kissing and laughing with someone. My perception of an ideal , I would like to see near me clever, intelligent, and reliable man. Which would require my emotional heat, capable to like and respect the man.
Would you embrace my heart and soul as you would your own. I don't let people in often, only when I feel that are of character and would not hurt me. I so want someone who would cherish me for all that I am and want to be in life. Everything I give in life is real and from the heart. Your heart would be safe with my heart. I hope to create a happy, cosy, secure marriage with a nice woman, I would love to have a loving family in a nice house where everyone feels good to come home to.
I have fully decided to be a role model to my children and a good, loving and caring wife to my husband,I doesn’t want to mess myself with the wrong man.Basically I decided to settle with a nice, good loving and caring man in the State. If I allow you into my heart which is a very special place, can I trust you to hold it or will you throw it back in my face? Will you give it alot of love,kindness and affection, or will you lie and mislead it in all different directions? Would you take care of it as it would take care of you,or would you rip it out and step on it with your shoe?
If I allow you in my heart which is capable of generating warm fillings of love your way, would you hold it tenderly and caress it each and everyday?A heart as bright as the sunshine rays lighting the very corners of you soul, holding you taking your breath away. If I allow you in my heart,through all it's up and downs will you be there holding it to the end, understanding it's emotions not allowing your love to bend? If I allow you in my heart to feel the warmth of your hand will you embrace it with your love,your passions,your plans? If I allow you in my heart will I know your love for it is real,will you cherish it and show it how a real woman feels? If I allow you in my heart will you fill it with all of your womanhood your passion your fire, the very essence of you...your desire?
To get in my heart it will except no imitation, if you promise to love, cherish,and take care of it, my heart extends to you..I will be waiting to hear from you and let me know what you think about this email honey and am falling for you baby.

With Love,


Letter 8


Thanks for your sweet note and i cant wait for the day when we will be together honey,I am that type of person who always try to make people laugh. I always make sure to share the little that I have with someone and also satisfied with whatever I have.Am an all rounded person to cut it this is all i can say about me but if you feels there's more you want to know about me please you're more than welcome to ask any question u wished to know about me and am also alone and looking for someone to share my whole life with, not just someone but one who have all the good characters in life,i am of that type and want someone with the same to spend with. I can see you are of that type because you stated it in your advert the type of person of you want. I really know what love is and also the type who give his whole heart in a relationship,relationships are built one day at a time; they take time, patience, honesty, passion and ability to compromise and grow! So with true love, is by sharing bad and good times together,true love is a covenant that we build on a strong foundation and that’s why we don’t develop it within a day. It takes sometime to mature and that’s when both sees that they are having the same strong feeling for each other. It is with true love as it is with ghosts; everyone talks about it, but few have seen it. I promise to make my one and only the most happiest man on earth if only he’s willing to accept me as part of him,i’ll be there whenever he needs me and promise never to do anything to hurt his feeling.’ll love him just the way he is, being blind, disable, deaf or dumb or whatever category that he falls in.I really mean my words and I’m serious too,i’m ever ready to sail to the end of the sea with him and ever prepared to do anything to have him forever.I promised to be the woman of his dreams cus I’m not going,to let him down, since the adage goes ;A woman without a man is like a river or a stream without a source and as relationship are build on trust and with mutual respect I assure him my whole heart,i dont know and can¦t tell if that special person is you but I believe it’s you Bcus your advert alone speaks of it all so why don’t we give ourselves a chance and find out what happens.I know at this point, we have something in common so let us be serious to each other and see what the future will be for us.. TRUST,you need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this ,love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respect and trust; and it should receive that love back.The best proof of love is trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience; it can weather any storm,loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and happiness.It's hard to love and hard to trust; but finding love and finding trust was a gift from you to me.Relationships should never be taken for granted,the choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you don’t have these ingredients you will never succeed.To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands,faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help,love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really love her,distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry. Without respect, love gets lost,without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies - trust it,there may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing.The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart,distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one important ingredient,trust..Do you trust me?Love means never doubting anything. It means trusting and being honest with each other,Someone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world,love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast. It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing,it does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people my dear There are many qualities that make relationships good support, compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship. Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs, this can take practice. Remember loving relationships grow and only become better, eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest. These three qualities alone will help you nurture and develop a deeper relationship with your partner,open and honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship. Watch to see that your partner is not secretive, nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects. For example, if a partner is married, and fails to tell you that, you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things, they can lie about small things. While you may not like everything your partner may say, freedom to be honest should be there in your relationship. Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner; a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in the relationship,when engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon. You want to have the ability to compromise so both partners are getting their wishes met. This may mean one night you watch football, and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy. It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking. In any organization with more than one person in it, there will be more than one opinion, work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects. If someone isn?t willing to compromise, they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires. If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met,we all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time. When your loved one does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship. As we all want to nurture those that we love.. We want the best in life for those that we care about. If your partner is unwilling to listen to you, and to your problems, they are not meeting your needs when you need support. Support can come in many forms, someone lending an ear, someone going out of their way to help you, or something as simple as a phone call to cheer you up. Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it,all relationships have some adjustment periods, but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love. Loving relationships have good qualities, such as support from your partner, a willingness to communicate, a desire to compromise, and open an honest communication. When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship, that relationship isn't likely to grow, and become something that you desire,i've been writing this for almost 2 hours now and im hoping to hear back from you.

Waiting to hear back from you
Hugs and Kisses


Letter 9

Hi Honey,

How are you doing,I long to have a best friend again,late night talks and long massages,waking up in the middle of the night and knowing you can roll over and hug someone during a thunderstorm is the best!!!!. I enjoy drinking wine, touching fingertips, smelling your neck. Sitting on a park bench and just staring at the water. I appreciate a full moon and eating an ice cream cone on a hot summer night. I enjoy dining out but would really enjoy to have an intimate dinner for two at home. I enjoy going to the movies, running, skiing, and the beach. I value time with the special man for me ..my soul mate.I love children and animals. I possess an unquenchable thirst for knowledge,hopefully you are someone that wants a woman, a man that looks at the woman in his life as the person he wants to escape with rather than from.... I also enjoy the finer things in life, restaurants, theater the beach and skiing,well, i believe everything about me i have written here to you. I am looking for a soul mate , a man i would spend the rest of my life with. Someone i can always share things with and do everything together. Could he be you?i am so much attracted to you and also falling in LOVE with you, I believe GOD has programmed us for each other,i am for real and hope you are too.

With Love,


Letter 10

Hi Sweetie,

How are you doing Its a great thing hearing from you,it puts a smile when i check my email and see i got an email from you,im sending this email to let you know how i feel about you and i cant wait to meet you in person,i must admit how i feel.I don't know what happened to me whether I was crazy or just lonely, all I know is I was sick of being deceived, mistreated, and unloved,then you came along... I don't know why. All I know is that I felt a connection on our first email, something I had never felt before which at first made me feel uneasy, stupid and even a bit childish, which made me go through all kinds of emotions as we emailed and began finding we had a lot in common. I felt like we had known each other from an unknown past.At first I was scared and a part of me wanted to ignore and just believe that you were just someone who was playing a game being that we were both behind the screen. I was thinking I was crazy to have the feelings I was beginning to have for you. I was really upset with myself and became very angry with the way I was feeling. I didn't want to admit to you or anyone else that I was falling for someone I had never actually met. I thought I was becoming insane myself - damn it - I tried to fight these feelings off but they were just too powerful for me to ignore! I tried to convince myself that this can't be for real; that you couldn't REALLY be feeling the same as I was... I was going insane!!! No matter how hard I tried - I just could not fight the feelings I was having for you.I am trying all i can not to say this but my feelings wouldn't let me rest so i want you to know that i really feel this for you and hope you feel the same way because you seem to be that man i have been looking for all this while,i want you to let me know how you feel about me,am i someone you are looking for?

With Love
Hugs and Kisses


Letter 11

Hello Honey, will like you to know that i was born to the family of Mr and Mrs Tony Wool the year 1965,i lost them when i was 7years old ,had no parental love ,grandma is all i got in life.i am currently in United Kingdom England, taking care of my sick grandmother,she had an accident which made her broke her ankle, so i will be relocating to be with you when she gets better and discharged from the Hospital.

Sweetie i don't have a personal cell phone here, because i wasn't expecting to stay here for this Long, but i believe everything will be over soon, because she's having her second operation by next week and once she had a successful operation we can start making arrangements about meeting each other Honey.