Letter(s) from Comfort Owiredu to Juhani (Finland)

Letter 1

I am Glad to meet you and it was nice read from you.i will love to get to know you well I am thinking about you as usual and thought I would give you a few insights. For starters I would say I was born and partly raised in Western Part of Africa, My father is from USA and my Mother is from Africa Ghana. I am Currently in Ghana due to the death of my father and i hope you don't have any problem with my distance ,but am willing to relocate if i find my soul mate.

I am 32 and will be 33 on 26th of this month,i don't have any kids.My daily routine starts between 6:30 - 7:00 am...which is exactly the time I wake-up most mornings, unless I was out late the previous night. A prayer, brush my teeth, work out: jogging/swimming or work out at the gym...I take a shower after which I treat myself to a healthy breakfast. I eat everything or anything healthy. Then, ready for my daily activities..I am a christian and i go to church every Sunday.

I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - ha ha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working.

I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well.

I am down for anything positive...maybe take a walk in the park or relax on the beach ...eat and drink something, maybe swim, jog or play soccer otherwise I or do something related.I want a serious relationship based on love, happiness, honesty, understanding and total commitment.

I will end my email here.I will be waiting to hear from you soon.


Letter 2

Hello Dear.
Thanks very much for taking your time to send me a mail.I really enjoy reading you email.Well i am also very honest and a faithful girl trying to meet someone that i can trust very well be to in a relationship with .I am not after games and i will try my best to let u understand about me very well know everything in my life.I have been in Ghana here due to some problem with my father's family.My dad was white and my mum was from Ghana.He met my mum here in Ghana and they decide to get marriage but my fathers family didn't like it because my mum was black but my dad went on and marry her.They stayed here in Africa for some years and after that i was born here in Ghana and my dad said this time we have to go to the state and meet his family.I was 8 month born when went there in the state.This time you have to understand that i am not a USA citizen i am a Ghanaian citizen.Well we where there and my mum didn't like it there staying with my fathers family.They also don't talk to her so she decided to come back to Ghana.She came back to Ghana and i was there with my father.

I here have been there for many years staying there with my father.My father died and his family said i am no longer a member of the family since my father is dead so i also said since my mum is down here in Ghana i have to come here in Ghana and stay with her since my fathers family do not need me anymore.That's why i am here in Ghana right now.

Well i have been in Ghana for five good years now.At first i was having a uncle was very rich and was the person who was taking care of me and my mum.I was in University Of Ghana at first studying Accounting.I have been studying Accounting for three good years and was left with some few months to finish school and get my Degree but due to some problems with my uncle's business i couldn't finish school because he was the person who have been taking care of the school fees and he cant pay for it so i have to stop school.Well i stopped school.

This time my mum is very old.She is 65 years now that's very old woman she cant work so i have to go out there work hard to take care of her and my self.I went out there at the Super market and had a Job.I have been doing that Job for two good years now and i really like the Job although i don't really get paid very well but i like the job because that's only way i can get money to take care of my self and my mum.The payment i get from work,i use that money to pay the house bills and after payment i will be left with some few amount of money then i will also have to use that amount of money to go and buy some food stuffs and put it in the house so that we can be using it until i get paid again.

I work very hard to take care of my self and my mum and i work hard not to go for a man because of his money or something,At this very moment, I am feeling great and there is no turning back, no second thoughts and I hope no regrets now or in the long run. I believe sometimes life hits you with unexpected things that take you totally by surprise. All I can say is you are the best surprise life has given me in these recent times. there are a few very important things I can't stand in my life and wanted you to know...

I dont like to be controlled or told what to do, I rather like a Man to advice and gaurd me...
Cant stand a Man who nags and complains all the time...
cant stand people who are mean, greedy or selfish...
I believe in total respect for one another...
I hate disappointment, breaking commitments or false promises...
I believe in total Care and concern for one another...
Being Open, direct including trust and honesty is extremely important...
Last but not the least I believe cleanliness is next to Godliness...

I stay healthy and strong by swimming, Jogging, or walking everyday depending on where I am...my favorite soccer team is Manchester United ?do you love football?what is your favorite football team?and my favorite NBA team is LA "Lakers".

Am enjoying this so much I wish I could go on and on...

Cant wait to hear from you,


Letter 3

Sweetheart,thank you very much for the funds. i have recieve it safely my love and my God bless you.hope you are doing fine? I must admit that your romantic and tender nature you have that radiates attractiveness and a deep aesthetic sensitivity to me! I feel your passionate, focused energy and your willingness to be self-revealing and risk-taking. Do you know what kind of profound bond this can create? Your determination and intensity of purpose is like an aphrodisiac to me.

Honestly I have been in high spirit...excited and very happy since you came into my life...Quite interesting when life gives you exactly what you want when you least expect it...this is all a dream come true though I find it hard to believe that this whole online dating stuff is reall...I had no knowledge about online dating till recently I watched the 1998 film, “You’ve got Mail”, a compelling tale of online romance...I later decided to do a primary research online and to my surprise I realized that in North America alone, the combined membership of internet-based dating agencies now exceeds 50 million.

As a process of initiating relationships, online dating is steadily becoming more comprehensive and sophisticated. The rituals and once preferred methods of introduction through friends, bar encounters, blind dates, singles clubs, etc. are now viewed by many as outdated...remnants of the “bad old days”.

Honestly I believe what I am feeling towards YOU is love at first sight which is a common trope in western literature. it's considered as the most powerful type of love. In the classical world, the phenomenon of "love at first sight" was understood within the context of a more general conception of passionate love, a kind of madness, as the Greeks put it.

The harmony between us is masterful and I am learning everyday and have the capacity to learn and be challenged even more. Our angels and demons are in perfect alignment....You cannot be more attractive than you are right now..so lets banish the thoughts of imperfections. We are all imperfect. We may want to walk and talk with God, to have him inside us, but we are human.

Let me tell you some more about myself. I am a very independent person, my Mother is the first to remind me if this.I want you to know that i am a woman who will bring so much Happiness and Joy to your life,I am a woman who will never hurt you or let you down.I am a woman who will cry with you and do everything with you.

Even Though we Just meet,I have also grown to have strong feelings for you because you sound perfect and i think you are an Angel sent from heaven.We both want to be happy in life and i want you to know that if this relationship can work for us we have to learn how to love,trust,understand and have faith in each other.

You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart and to trust one another. One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this.........Love is like a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction. It should be given respect and trust; and it should receive that love back.The best proof of love is trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience; it can weather any storm.

Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and happiness.It's hard to love and hard to trust; but finding love and finding trust was a gift from you to me.Relationships should never be taken for granted. The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and respect are a must for eternal happiness. No matter how much you love someone if you don’t have these ingredients you will never succeed.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing that will never fade until you die, your heart.Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting them with your heart.

Trust is what you put in someone's hands. Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always there to help them in case they need some help. Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really love her.

Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry..... Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty, love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.

Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be returned to you to give again and again.You can get advice from family, friends and strangers, but the best advice comes from your heart; it never lies - trust it.There may be many people that are trustworthy, but only a few are worth trusting with your heart; choose wisely.

To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved. For you can love many, but without trust you have nothing........The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of... Trust your heart.Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way, 'cause love has just one important ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me?

Love means never doubting anything. It means trusting and being honest with each other Someone can be as beautiful on the outside as they are on the inside, but when he or she betrays your trust, they become the ugliest person in the world.Love is patient. Love is kind. It does not envy. It does not boast..... It is not proud. It is not rude. It is not self-seeking. It is not easily angered. It keeps no record of wrong doing. It does not delight in evil, but rejoices in the truth. It always protects, trusts, hopes, perseveres.Love takes many things: trust, hope, wishes, dreams, and everything you've got, even when you know it's not going be enough.Love is not always fireworks and shooting stars; sometimes it's a simple understanding and trust between two people.

I think it is important that we continue to acknowledge this wonderful, unexpected relationship that we are discovering while at the same time being very careful and respectful of expectations. With you, I have not had trouble expressing my feelings, and, because of how you related to me, I realize we have became very real and intimate in our discussions, quite quickly. That is the uniqueness of this relationship and it is a new experience for me...this whole online thing. You have showed me so many wonderful qualities of attractiveness that I've been smitten by your being and want to know you even more.

I am, as always, thinking of you and waiting to hear from you.


Letter 4

Dear One I Am So Sorry I Felt Asleep Last Night When We Were Chatting.Thank You For The Wonderful Pictures.I Really Love Them.I Am Back Home From Work Early Today My Love

Sweetheart I Have Been Trying To Keep some thing Very Secretive From U But I Realized That You are Such Responsible And A Trusted Worthy Man That I Can Put My Whole Trust In...Hon My Dad Was A Business Man Here In Ghana West Africa And Owner Of A Gold Mining Company. Well I Don't Really Knows How To Start With This But Let Me Start By Saying My Dad Married 3 Wives Which My Moms was The Last Wife Before His Death.Well To Start With This Secret My Dads Deposited with A Private Security Company in Ghana For Proper Keep And Safety Here Which I Have Never Tell You Before, Well This Trunk Boxes My Dad Deposited Is In A Security Company With Contains 166kg Of Gold In Each Box Which The Security Company Did Not Know It Content Because it was Deposited In My Name But My Dad Did That in A Way Which Am Not Able To receive It Till I Get Married or Going to Stay With My Future Husband Or Soul mate And Once We Are Get Married You Have To Be The Next Of Kin But The Company Told Me That in The Contract Bond document It Was stated that Its only A Foreign partner That Can claim it Because My Late Father Register it On Express Transfer To Leave Africa. Sweetheart Moms Revealed This Secret To Me Because She Is The Last Wife They Did Not Want Us To Enjoy The Wealth Of My Dad .Moms And I Met My Dads Lawyer Who Has Handled Us Some Of The Documents Which My Dad deposited. The Documents Are All Bearing In My Name As A Next Of Kin. Babe My Moms wanted You to Help Me so That i Can Transfer This boxes To You In The Finland While We Both Coming To Stay Together Soon.. Its My Only Property That I Have In Life Now And I Will Enjoy It With My Future Husband Only !! I Hope You Do Understand Me Now Sweetheart. Please Let Me Know If U Do Have Any Comment. I Do Have My Dads Lawyers Information’s Such As He's Email Address! Baby I Just Want U To Understand That I I Love You And I Trust you Too, Even think when This Stuff Gets Thru We will Both Invest In Any Big Company And I Guess We Are Going To Be The Next Richest People In The world.Sweetheart I Remain Grateful With You And Will Be Pleased If You Can Grant Us The Opportunity To Work Out This Transaction With You..But If This Proposal Does Not Appeal To You,Please Keep It Secret And Reply Accordingly. Willing To Hear From U Asap...Till I Hear From U Have A Wonderful Day!!!
Yours Lovely Babe

Letter 5

Attn Sir,

Miss Grace Was Here This Afternoon.I am Glad and Happy that she have finally found her future husband.I made a Promise to her Late father before he passed away that i will make sure Grace Inheritance will be safe and also will help Grace when ever she need her inheritance to start her life.

This message is to prove to you that I am a reputable lawyer that have been to the law school and have been called to the Bar! That will be a sort of proof that will get you convinced that I'm a real attorney.

I hereby attach a copy of my Call to Bar Certificate and My international Passport for preview...Miss Grace have told me about you and your relationship with her.Her late father was my Good Client and my Best friend.i will here by support you and her on her behalf so everything can be done correctly.

Before we proceed this transaction i will love to see a copy of your credentials (passport.visa,driver licenses etc).

Kindly find attachment and get back to me. I decide to write to you from my official email address of the law firm where I'm presently working but i think you will read it from my email .

While waiting your response I remain with the kindest regards.


Bar .ken William Esq.
Oko House Law Firm ,Ghana.