Letter(s) from Cynthia to Michael (USA)

Letter 1

I'm an optimistic person with a sense of humor,fairly easy going,and i don't think that i'm too critical about things,but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work

I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me,spending all his time working and and cleaning,i believe there is give and take in a relationship

I realize that at times its more convenient for me to do laundry,cook,clean,and i have no problem doing that.I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return

I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or play me.Everybody makes mistakes and i usually give people the benefit of the doubt,but if the same pattern keeps emerging,then i guess i should put an end to it

I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses, soorry if that sounds harsh

I'm not accusing anybody of any wrong doing,but i'm being upfront and honest about that,so you know where I stand from the beginning.With all due respectas well,i hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well

I realize that I am 27 years old and that you are some what Older than me,if you would still like to correspond,that's fine...we will see how things go after we get to know each other.

Well,I hope that this lets you know a little about me,and i hope I don't come across as being too cynical,harsh or mean sounding.

I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt,You know we are all human and definitely make mistakes as well,but I also don't like being taken advantage of

I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning,that way,nobody is wasting their time forgetting their feelings hurt

I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in relationship together but it doesn't mean that its anybody's fault,its just that they are too different to be compatible

I love American foods,rice,pasta,chicken,deer,pork,fish,shellfish,potato,vegetables,everything rich in all nutrients

I am on the computer getting into it more and more!!!dancing is important to me I want soon badly to get better at it !!!

It is such a positive way of having fun and expressing yourself,and you get to show your woman to the world on the dance floor like a beautiful flower equal partnership takes two to tango,compromise,communication is sooooo important!!!!

I will always be who I am at the core my soul my being who I am and what makes me,Butttt!!!I am chuck full of potential I actually can be taught!!!!!

Woman need to be like a guiding light for men we sometimes have atendency to miss the little things,not on purpose.

Man and a woman should work as a team together,I cook,clean,dust,and do laundry,but I wouldn't wish all that on one person ever

I know what it is to do all those things its allot to do and would drive anyone person to either loose their mind or run away

I am the kind of person that is affectionate!!love to cuddle,and get lost in kiss!!!! intimacy and foreplay is important along with romance!!!

I also am very,very much into giving and receiving oral,from the one I love and live with

I am a giver the more I make the one I love feel loved and explosive the more turned on I get the man love is like a rare fruit that I just can't get enoueg hope this get you to know me

I would like you to know a little more about me,and life has been filled with heartbreaks and i don't want anymore hurt or pains

I want to find a man,who wants a relationship based on Truth,Real Love not love,Compassion,Friendship,Loyalty,and Honesty!!!!

I also want to be able to be Romantic to him with Love,not him telling me thing he likes,If you love me,you will do this or that for me

I want to be able to do anything to make my man happy,because I Love Him,not because he tells me to do it.

All i am Looking for is real,true and pure Love and hope you can make me feel real,pure and true Love bcos you sound very nice and sweet and you are someone i will never want to loose if i have lol...

Well as you know Exercise is very important and I generally try to live some what healthy lifestyle,exercising and some sort of jogging,3-4 days a week and eating healthy

Well not every one loves sweets and candies but trust me,I love sweets and pastries,but try not to over do it, and also make each other feel happy,loved,cared,wanted and Satisfied.

I'm looking for someone who is humble,hard working,faithful,honest,trust worthy and knows how to treat a woman like the way woman need to be treated,respectful,love kids and family

Communicative,have a good sense of humor,someone who will be there for me when i need his help or support,share ideas together as husband and wife

I'm ready for that its very important to know what you want so that you stop wasting time,yours and others, while trying to find the person who is a great match for you..

But do you have plans of meeting someone some day when God permit to spend the rest of the life left with you???

I would love to spend the rest of my life being in love with someone,though i know it is not easy to come across true love this days,its very hard find the right person but that doesn't mean you need to give up

I want someone who makes me laugh,who is kind to people as well as animals,someone who is confident but laidback,funny or at least can make me laugh and smile

I need someone who loves their family,i need to be attracted to them and finally i want someone that when they come through the door at the end of the night will come and take me in their arms and kiss me

I want the sexual attraction to stay for a long long long time as the word of love can move mountains all both needs is trust,understanding and faithfulness

Love comes from a pure heart and a good conscience and a sincere faithful is not easy to come across the right person been true love this days thought the word love is very hard to find

But once you come across the right person that your heart desire and need to settle with you ain't gonna regret,that is why am also looking for someone special,i believe you need to work at a relationship to help it grow and become all you wish it to be

I believe that each person needs to give 100% and be open and honest with the other, I believed lots of long soft deep kissing

Looking for both low and high maintenance person as no one is perfect on this world except God,One who likes time with his friends but will put our relationship first.A romantic person who thinks of others more than himself.

I need someone willing to accept me and get to know them when they are around. someone to walk hand in hand with,to be my friend and lover and to find true happiness with

I'm looking for a person who is family oriented and ready to settle down...someone who loves children and is looking forward to have their own some day if God permit.someone who will be at my side when there is need of help or share ideas together etc.

Woman been faithful,get tender care of love You believe beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder? someone can be generous outside but be very ugly inside Babe!

Have you ever been in a relationship before? I truly believe that once you love someone you always do just in a different way perhaps What are your likes and dislikes in a relationship? so tell me about your last relationship umm likes...

I love to kiss but let me be serious here..I like a man who will not only show me that he loves me but will tell me.I think it is very important to tell someone all the things you love about them,not constantly but often

I dislike a relationship that tried to suppress who the individuals are, I think it is very important to have two people with two lives who come together and intertwine their interests while still keeping something of themselves there are so many things that make up a wonderful relationship that it's hard to put into words.

I truly believe that when the right person comes along we know it Some people are in love with the idea of being in love and they don't even know the right meaning of this for letter word been ( L O V E )

Trust is an important part of relationship The most important part precious no trust no relationship as passion of love is what we are all saking for Love is the passion that we feel inside of our hearts that we can't hide

We pretend to hit it, but it burns us more and more until the pain grows and grows and it never ends

To love someone genuinely is to stand by his or her side when he or she needs your help(50/50) feel your presence and share ideas together as husband and wife

Do you think you can be beside of your life partner when she needs your help/supportive when it comes to to that, feel your presence,share ideas as lovers etc

As passion is not having sex(though sex is attach to marriage to make both partners happy) But it's making love forever Sex was attach to a relationship/marriage to make both partners happy to enjoy their marriage passion is an amazing thing.hard to put into words as love is a noble act ofself giving,offering trust,faith, nd loyalty.

The more you love,the more you lose a part of yourself, yet you don't become less of who you are, you end up being complete with your loved ones

Women need to be adore and cherish like the way she need to be treated human nature, thats why alot of couples fail they lose there passion for each other and then seek someone else to make them feel that way both have to be able to give and take from each other this is a rose flower to welcome you once more as love can be expressed in a myriad of different methods,but the most timeless and most treasured will always remain the classic

I promise you as every single person in this world waits for love in their life. Some people say love didn't come to them but it was right in front of their eyes

Some people wait a life time for true love,I should know,I'm still waiting for my true love but i think at this time it is at the door step waiting for me as nothing is impossible

well precious i been waiting a long time for the right man one who wants to being love and not a game called love,i been there did the fun love not for me it hurts to much

I'm just seeking a mate to enjoy all life offers us and when i find him we will be in love and everyone will know it we might make love on a mountain top or on the sand of an ocean who knows

All relationships have some adjustment periods,but being hurt shouldn't be part of being in love,loving relationships have good qualities,such as support from your partner,a willingness to communicate,adesire to compromiseand open an honest communication.When you do not have these fundamental qualities in a relationship,that relationship isn't likely to grow,and become something that you desire

We all turn to our loved ones for support from time to time,When your love done does not offer you their support it may be time to look at your relationship,as we all want to nurture those that we love,we want the best in life for those that we care about

If your partner is unwilling to listen to you,and to your problems,they are not meeting your needs when you need support.
Support can come in many forms,someone lending an ear,someone going out of their way to help you,or somethingas simple as a phone call to cheer you up

Make sure your partner gives you support when you need it.When engaging in a relationship with another person there is always going to be things that you do not agree upon.You want to have the ability to compromise so both
partners are getting their wishes met

This may mean one night you watch football,and one night your partner watches a movie you enjoy.It might mean that your partner can agree to try a dish that you enjoy cooking.In any organization with more than one person in it,there will be more than one opinion,work with your partner to see that both of you can compromise on different subjects

If someone isn't willing to compromise,they are not willing to acknowledge your wants and desires

If they can not acknowledge your wants they are likely not emotionally developed enough for you to have your needs met.Openand honest communication is one of the more desirable qualities you want to have in a relationship.

Watch to see that your partner is not secretive,nor are they willing to tell lies to avoid certain subjects

For example, if a partner is married,and fails to tell you that,you can rightfully assume if they can lie about big things,they can lie about small things.While you may not like everything your partner may say,freedom to be honest should be therein your relationship.

Likewise, you need to be open and honest with your partner, a relationship based upon false truths is not likely to be successful, because both partners do not have the correct frame of reference in inter relationship there are many qualities that make relationships good support,compromise, and open and honest communication is just a few of these qualities that you may desire in a relationship

Engage only in relationships where both partners can openly discuss their wants and needs,this can take practice.

Remember loving relationships grow and only become better,eliminate those who do not meet your needs when they continually fail to support you, will not compromise, and will not be honest.