Hello, Its my very good pleasure to read your profile on the site, I'm Vanessa originally from Australia I do stay in Los Angeles CA in the state, and i would really like to get to know you better ,but i don't always get on line to chat because I dont really know much about internet stuff but I always update my private mail account,well we both know a little from our profile so i think we can go this way and see what we have in common ....I believe getting to know someone 1st.. That friendships are built. They are built from a strong foundation 1st, and then they continue to grow from there. Yes, it takes Times, there is give, and take involved. I believe in open communication, standing in our truth, being honest, and having integrity. Honoring and respecting each other is high on my list. I treat people the way I like to be treated. I believe what comes around goes around. I am a very compassionate person. I am in no rush, I think it's very important to take the time to get to know someone. That is what builds true friendships. Quality friendships,let me know what you think.I will try in writing you more about me and i will be looking forward to hearing from you soon. Am looking for a man that will be able to listen to me , communicate his feelings to me , make me laugh, hold and comfort me in need,stand by my side, respect me, passionate lover in every way, support me in every way, love me and only me, make me smile, protect me when needed, romantic time to time ,constantly reactive, and treat me right, I know you will think what is a pretty lady like me doing on here .. Yes the reason I came on to the internet to find the special person who deserves all the love and passion that makes up my heart and soul is because I do not have the time to meet others out in a public setting, and the fact I feel you can learn so much about someone through letters, as a person has to take there time and think about the words they want to express, so it allows you to gain a better understanding of someone than you would probably otherwise.I will like to ask u some questions below : 1..what do you like in a lady ? 2..are you a player or for real ? 3..are you single or divorced? 4..do you have kids ? 5..what you do for a living? 6..then tell me little about yourself ? 7..what you do for a fun and in your free time? 8...Where are you from? 9...What's your name? 10....How old are you? 11.. what are your good and bad experience in meeting a lady on the internet. I would like to know more and more about you,hope to read back from you soon,...
I Care,
Vanessa!

Thank you so much for getting back in touch with me as it actually made my day! I am really going to put a lot of effort into writing this letter to you in hopes it will provide you with a good understanding of who I am, what I am all about, and what has made me the person I am today. The reason I am going to write a letter rather than just send a message is because I am serious about wanting to establish a quality friendship with someone honest and caring, and because of the fact I rarely contact anyone on here, so you can be rest assured I am serious about my intentions as am here for real. I'm a single lady,I have a great career, a great family, but as the future get older the days come and go more quickly as I am reminded of how much more fun it would be to find the right person to share life's journey. I appreciate your tenacity and zeal which are one of the qualities of a matured man. My ex fiancee was much older than me but I believe age is a state of the mind also age is just a number and I am looking for a mature man at heart and a man that knows what he wants out of life. I know that at this stage you must have been through one or two ups and down in life and relationships but still life needs to go on and you need to look at the bright side of things. I am a single lady of 29 years old , single never married , Home town Australia, in the city of Adelaide the southern part of Australia, i obtained my degree at the university of Adelaide in Australia before i moved down to the state years ago and graduated in Cosmetologist and when I graduate I also learn hairdresser before I later work as my brother secretry on his International Business being a Contruction Manager.I dont know much about my dad because I was young when he passed away but I laught a lot with my mum because i learn dancing from her, lol! I love dancing too much more than the friends,when I hear the music from party or my body starts to move all alone lol, I swear it is the reality.and I asked this question to my mother to know the secret of that and she told me that when I was a little baby on some months she put me in the middle of the room and she starts dancing because I was really a lovely baby and I looked at her dancing, that's why I'm a bit special lol. I return back to US when I was 22years with my brother and also have been to Germany so many places when my senior brother was till alive due to his Auto Mobile trading from different countries and I work as his secrety so we always go together. I am from a family of 4 my mum my dad and me and my senior brother we lost our Dad when i was 9years old and i lost my brother last years in an auto accident in Carlifornia on his way to greet his friend when we came back from work,since then i have been all alone trying to make a living and i have always believed that whatever doesnt **** me will definitely make me stronger.Well i lived in Los Angeles,CA in the state and it is a lovely place. I find very much peace and tranquility there. I`m 5`3"160 with a athletic build , mentally stable, physically fit, a bunch of laughs, warm, caring, honest, good listening, God Fearing, and a positive person,I am real easy person to talk to and a good listener. I love to play golf and I enjoy chilling` with my friend/family. I like going to the movies or watching movies in my room , I like swimming , fishing, listening to music and dance, traveling , going bowling and etc.I am a family oriented person and I get along with everyone in my family and outside my family, and There is more, but it would be better for you to find some things out for yourself. Am here down for a serious relationship. All i want you to know Presently am single.Let me tell you little about my past relationship,I depart with my Ex Fiancee in 2010. He was a computer engineer.I was cheated on, My Ex-fiancee cheated on me and i just have to let go and I have been into only 2 relationships and that is also my only ****** partners I have ever had. Am missing *** and i do love that in a times? One of my relationships ended because the love was not there to grow rather than after all i done for him and the other one ended cos of my partner is a betrayal and infidelity (cheating) It happened one Saturday morning, i was to travel to visit my mother about our relationship, and he dropped me at the airport and left...But suddenly i couldn't make my flight that day cause, my flight was re-scheduled to be the next Saturday and i have to go back home, to get him informed that flight was re-scheduled....Getting to his place, i couldn't find Him in the sitting room so i have to check him in his living room, on getting there...I couldn't stand what i saw!!! I CAUGHT HIM MAKING LOVE TO MY BEST FRIEND, All was mad and crazy, don't know what to say or to do..So i just started crying and he was trying to make me understand that its the work of Devil and not his intention, and ever since then i was single ,Just don't know what to tell my mother since then about him because my mother have been disturbing me to bring home my fiancee that she will want to see her grandchildren.but I do not have the time to meet people out in a public setting that is the reason why I decide to sign up on the website and see if possible I can find my right man through this. I would love to meet a man that I can be friends with for starters and then we can become intimate as friendship is key in any relationship. I have so much more to share with the right person and I sincerely hope that you might be the one. I am sending some of my pictures so happy viewing and a couple of yours would not be bad either so please do reciprocate.I thought this would be a good way to start, getting to know someone by E-mail/letters first I think will help. I hope to hear from you soon and I am really interested in wanting to know more about you as you wrote me little in your previouse email but I feel like getting more closer to you by knowing you deeply. What would You like to Tell me?
what makes you the special person you are today?
I want to know more about your family?
your background?
your life experiences?
Do you live alone or with your parent?
your past relationships?
your goals and dreams?
your interests? kindly let me know all about the question I ask about you and anything else you want to tell me. Hoping to hear from you soon and I hope you are taken back from my own lengthy email but I just need to be open and explicit to find that particular man I am looking for.That is the reason why I go deeply telling you alot about me and there is still more to share together but let me stop here for now.I will be expecting to hear from you aswell Love and best regards
Vanessa....

It's nice to read from you soon and am glad to know more about you .I think sharing and reading more about each other we will be getting more closer to each other.As for me, I and my brother are the only children of our parents, and i have lived in Tel Aviv Israel Because of my Brother's job.We have lived in UK so much time as am living in US now and we also lived in San Salvador, Cuba, Poland and Denmark. Before moving back to the States. We also attended many different kinds of churches including Lutheran, Catholic, Baptist but now I attend church services. Although not as often as I should,but I do speak to God on a regular basis though,because It helps me to keep life in perspective and balanced. When I do go to church, I go to a Presbyterian church near my home. I can honestly admit I enjoy going and do not have a valid reason for not going on a more regular basis,my Brother put me into this before he die. My Mom is also a retired school teacher (math) and she also go to church.but as I told you I dont really know much about my Dad but my mum always told me my Dad is a Contractor that my brother took after his JOB after he died. I moved along with my Brother to united state cos i love my brother so much as he started his International business and I work as his secretry. ,life is always nice when you have your Family by your side , mine is pretty touch cos i lost my Brother too soon, so I moved to UK after he die in a car accident .Due to the fact that am the only child left for my mum, i moved to United Kingdom to stay with my mother because she had a shock after hearing the sad news of my brother incident. paying visit to my mum after the incident of my brother let me have the chance to contact my late brother lawyer and I was inform I will need to claim my late brother property in West africa Nigeria as the Next Of Kin to him and What brings me down back to United State is the peace and tranquility due to my work and my brother Property , I realized my work will do well in the States due to the advised giving to me by my mother to go back to my first JOB as hairstylist since my brother that I work with as his secrety his died and also she really wanna know my man to be, as my future partner. ,since the last few months of me being in the United State ,things have been tough ...because have been living alone but thankfully since I came back to the state i have a new gainful employment that I do to make a living I am working in salon as Hair Stylist because that is my real profession but presently am not working because am not in the State am presently in west africa Nigeria for an important issue that concern with my late brother he have a share in an oil company here in west africa and I as the next of kin to him I was inform by his lawyer that I will be the one to claim the share out so am in west africa now to claim the share and I will be done here soon latest by next weeks friday I should have access to all what am here to claim. Have been here since last three weeks and everything is going on fine over here.I really gained a lot of experience from my late brother before he died because if not without him I wont know where I will be by now but thanksful to GOD he put me in the right way.am Planning to open my own salon as soon as am done here but it all depend on where I relocate to because am ready to relocate to my right man am tired being single my mum is not also happy with that.am ready to relocate anywhere under this world just to be with my right man and to pleased my Mother.so it all depend on where the man I meet stay that will determine where I will set up the salon business.its hard for me to meet people out of public settings and that is the reason why I join the site to see if possible I meet the right man through the site and maybe if we share thing forming into relationship between each other I can fly down to him when am done here in west africa by next weeks to meet him in person.I don't want any game in my life than to make my mother feel better by showing up my Man to be for marriage and to see her grand Child which she have been disturbing me for. my dad and my brother left too soon and i don't want to let my mom leave without seeing her grand children and She really wanna know the Mr right for me as well so you can see am not down here to play game than reality.am new on the site and Initially, I never found any serious relationship i could finalize my life with and to let my mother knows that am serious about this marriage.I think i have helped and done enough out for men, but they bare all ingrates all i could have from them is a heart break!!But i see all i go through in life as challenges.. not after a man's wealth nor his money,but his love. since the death of my brother i have started to live my life by myself and not depending on my family but always go by my mum advice have really miss her.I also miss my Brother alot because of the courage and advises he use to give to me about life,May his gentle soul rest in peace. But i do have to be thanking God all day and night that I and my mother are happy alive .Mom do stay in UK London and I'm Planing to visit her very soon to give her report about my business and the share am here to claim,I will be paying her visit maybe when am done here in west africa Nigeria but I want to make sure when visiting her I go back with a good report about my future by introducing my fiancee to her cos no one else like mother to me,I always want her to be happy.I join the site to meet my right man because I know introducing my man to her she will feel happy moreover am also tired being single,I do not have the time to meet other people out in a public setting so I think through the site I can be able to meet my right man.as I already told you before that I will like to meet my right man first before going to UK to tell my mum about the report of the share am here to claim and introduce my fiancee to her,because she's my back ****. All have been sharing with you are little story that really mean big deal to my life that i never tell any one about so pls do keep all this about me to your self only,than sharing about me and my family with any one out there or your friends I wont be happy with that.This friendship I want to build with you will be filled with substance, quality, spirituality and potential.Baby you sound so nice in your previous message and I want the real thing with you,someone I can hold, hug, kiss, love, laugh and share my life with , walk the walk of life dance for ever. Someone that has time and love for me and only me,that wants me to be his Queen as he shall become my King.I'm just tired of being by myself not having someone to talk too,to come home too,to eat dinner with,to watch TV and fight over the remote control,lol day to days,those simple pleasures life has to offer. am not here to talk to you about general things such as partying, the weather, sports, e.t.c. I want to learn about you and what makes up your heart and soul, as the friendship I want to build with you I want it to be like no other you have ever shared in or experienced.What I'm asking of you, is to be honest about what you are looking for. What do you want? Need?
Do you have time for a serious relationship?
Are you willing to commit? let me have your phone number so with that our communication will be more easier and faster. I want you to keep your time getting back to me with answer to all this question I am asking because they really mean alot to me.the reason I'm asking all this is because I want more than an Internet relationship, more than chats, e-mails or letters regardless if we become good friends or something more,because I'm a people person, I like to share and interact with others free to know more about each other better..wating to hear back from you! I feel so lucky
True luv,Vanessa

My Dearest , I just want you to know that I very much appreciated receiving your letter every moment i check my mail. Truly, I have looked for love in all the wrong places! and nothing has worked out for me. I'm hoping to find someone decent. Spirituality is important to me.but I'd like to find a man like you, who values a personal relationship as I do; someone who can have a comfortable discussion about such things. Someone who thinks that morals and values and decency are important. I live my life through the word of God and through my spirituality, and I refuse to have *** with someone if I am not in a relationship with them and my last relationship ended over 3 years ago. My reasoning which I understand is very strange in today's world, but my believe is my heart and soul, and the passions that is in it is very unique and special, so I made the decision and made a promise to God that I would not be sexually active for the sake of just wanting ***, or to have *** for someone else's own self gratification. Knowing the passion that is contained in my heart and soul is very unique, I made the decision to abstain from *** because I want this special gift to be shared with the person I am dedicating the rest of my life to, as his Wife and the future of his needs to provide sometimes. I try to call your number you provide to me but its not going through because I havent activate my phone to international call over here in west africa,Nigeria I so try to company in a phone network here so now they help me activate it to be able to send text message so for now I can only communicate with my phone through text message and it will take 1hours before the activation comes up so once you recieve my text just let me know so I will know it have been activate am having something in my mind that I will want to ask you,Do you have any woman friend? and right now are you with anybody or have you been talking to anybody else from the site we found each other? i don't like liars and cheats i want my man friend to be honest with me and be willing to love me and stand by me through anything that is most importantly have no time for games and drama so please if your intention are not good please let me know!!! James,Please we have to delete our profile out at the site since we have found each other and have a lot in common for what we are both looking for,Thanks and hope you can have your profile deleted right now and i will do so right now here,we have to delete it for us to be able to focus on each other. Please be faithful and straight forward with me,as i will not like to doubt of you because My intentions are very true. I would like to see where this goes with you. If you want to see what happens with us. That great. If not, let me know. I hate games/ liars as I mention before, so just be honest with me and I will be happy not matter what you say. Honesty is very high up there for me. PS: If you have a Yahoo Messenger i think that will be better and more easier to communicate, Because i don't know when my phone message will be Delivered to you.. Hope I explain myself ?A lonely girl of her family trying to find Mr right. is it you?,I will be waiting for your respond to all the question I ask you Your best friend as lover,
Vanessa...

**** this morning I was inform to get some document issue for the clearance and its very important I have to use all I have left with me to get the document because its very cost **** now I havent eat anything and I wont be able to have anymoney with me not until friday because that is when I will be having access to the money am here to claim and am really hungry right now,please **** I will want you to assist me with some little amount so I can manage it till friday that I will be having access to the money am here to claim..am really hungry right now ****