Hi! How are you doing? I first time during lives write the similar letter. I a little I worry! My name is Elena. I live in a city Ulyanovsk. It large a city in the European part RU. To metwenty eight years. I cheerful and purposeful the girl. Still I courageous because not having bravery, I never have not decided to write this letter. I ask you to give me pair of minutes of your time! I am assured, that my letter will be interesting to you! I just have received recently yours electronic box in agency of acquaintances. I assume, what you just as also I try to find here the love, it so? If it so I want to write you pair of words about itself and to tell to you, why I search relations in "World wide web". I wish to test my destiny and to try to meet second half through the Internet because to me have not carried to meet in my city adequate the man who was able sincerely to like the woman. Men in Russia to concern the woman as to a thing and do not reflect that the woman too has heart. I hope, that you adequat e the man whom really search here for the love and is able to see in the woman not only appearance, but also soul! I hope, that you will write me the answer so I can even more to give information about yourself and to send to you mine a photography! I wait your answer that to continue our acquaintance. Best regards, Elena

Good day my new friend Gerald! What is your mood? I just found your letter in the spam box. I don’t know why your letter got there, but now I have added you to my contact list, so now your letters should no longer be in the spam box. Please do the same so that my letters do not end up in your spam box, and we can safely receive each other's letters, okay? So, thanks again for answering my letter !!! Now we can start our acquaintance! Where to start my story about me ?? It turns out that this is not an easy task;))) First of all, I want to admit that I was a little worried whether you would answer my request for dating or not! In the recent past, I already tried to meet a man on the Internet using a dating agency. But this was unsuccessful, and in fact it turned out that these men were not interested in finding a serious relationship or were only looking for an exchange of ***** pics. I hope that this time I was lucky and you are looking for a serious relationship ??? I don’t want to waste your and my time. I want you to honestly admit to me if you are looking for a serious relationship or are you not interested ?? Please be sincere with me !!
I was already seriously injured 1.5 years ago in real life, and I don’t want to be hurt again. Then my man betrayed me! He cheated on me with another woman not long before we were supposed to get married. It seemed to me that my world had collapsed and I could never trust a man again, but time heals ... and now I have found the strength to believe in love again. But still not in love with a man from Russia. I became smarter. That betrayal helped me to see and make sure that in Russia most men really do not respect and do not value their women. I did a lot in my past relationships to ensure that my man was happy, but he did not appreciate my care. I realized that all three years of our relationship I was only his Cook-lady and the Cleaning lady, but at the same time I never received true love, care and respect! After much thought, I decided to try to look for happiness on the Internet. I read many articles about how Russian women find their second half through a dating agency and live happily with a man who truly knows how to value and respect a woman. I think that each of us has the right to happiness, right ??? And who will build happiness for us if we ourselves do not do it with our own hands ?? Maybe everything that I write to you right now is not at all interesting for you, but I think it is very important to explain to you at the very beginning of our conversation about what kind of relationships I am looking for and why I am looking for these relationships on the Internet. I think that you do not mind if I start our acquaintance with the fact that I will talk about why I'm here ?! So, as you should have already understood, my goal is to find the right man with whom I can build a serious relationship and be happy together. I think everything sounds very simple, right ?? But at the same time it is a very difficult task. If you are looking for the same thing as me, then we should try to start our communication, and only time will tell where this will lead us.
Personally, I always believe in the best! Well, I think I'm really a bit carried away by stories about the past. We should not live in the past, but in the present, right ??? So, thanks again for writing to me, and now I want to talk about myself. My name is Elena!!!! I am 28 years old and I live in Russia, in the city of Ulyanovsk. My height is 167 centimeters and my weight is 53 kilograms. I have never been married, although as you understand from what I wrote above, I was close to this. I have no children. I work as an accountant in a clothing store, but sometimes I help salespeople on the trading floor!
I will tell you more about this in my next letter! I do not want to bore you with long letters, so I think it would be logical if in each subsequent letter I talk more about me. And I ask you to follow this principle just as well. Please tell me more about you in each letter and don’t forget to send me your photos. It seems to me that this will make our communication more interesting. Do you agree?? I don’t want our communication to be like a profile. But at the same time, I will be happy to answer all your questions. I think it’s worth immediately telling you that I lead a healthy lifestyle. In the past, I played volleyball, skied a lot, and even practiced figure skating. But now the work takes me too much time, and I do not have the opportunity to exercise regularly. But despite this, I often go to the pool to maintain my figure in good condition. I will send you some of my photos. I hope you like my looks? In addition, I like to read books, watch some movies and cook. Cooking is one of my favorite hobbies. I will discuss all this in more detail in my subsequent letters. Of course, provided that you will be interested in this :)) In any case, I hope that you will not leave my letter unattended. I will be glad to see your answer tomorrow. And immediately I want to apologize that my letter was a little long. But I tried to write to you what it seems to me important to learn from the first letter so that then we could move towards our goal, if it coincides. I promise that in the future I will try to make my letters shorter !! Waiting for your answer! Sincerely, Elena

Hi Gerald !!! Thank you for your answer! I'm glad you answered me. This means that you are interested in a serious relationship, and we can continue !! I sincerely hope that every day our communication will grow and develop. We will write letters to each other and answer each other's questions. This is important because this is the first sign that we are interested in each other, right ?? Gerald, after I wrote you my last letter, I thought for a long time about if my letter interested you ?? Or didn’t you even begin to read my letter and deleted it after you read only half? Perhaps I shouldn’t be so open and write in the first letter about my past relationships right away ?? I really tormented myself with all these questions !! But then I reassured me with the thought that frankness is most important !! If from the very first letter we tell each other what we think and feel, then it will be more correct than we will hide something, right ?? The past is an integral part of our life, and it is impossible to escape from the past. The past cannot be changed !! But we can always find the strength in ourselves to accept our past as part of our life and continue to move forward despite all the failures in the past !!!
Unfortunately, for many people, the past becomes a ballast that makes it difficult to build the future. This is not correct. Therefore, I boldly tell you about my past failures. I don’t want to have any secrets from you. Gerald, I want you to understand that I am very serious about our correspondence. I do not have time for games !! I am very limited in my time, because I have to write to you with work. The fact is that the Internet Service Provider, which won the tender to connect my house to the Internet, suddenly went bankrupt, and at the same time lost all the money that the residents of my house, including myself, collected to connect the Internet to our house. Now legal proceedings are underway if we must again collect money to connect the Internet to our home or the Internet Service Provider must return this money back, and we should already contact another Internet Service Provider. When the court will pronounce the verdict, and when the Internet Service Provider returns the money to us, I don’t know yet, but I will believe that soon. But while I will write to you from work.
I will try to do it regularly, but if suddenly I can not answer you right away, then please, do not worry! I will always answer you when I have some free time at work! Gerald, I think that you will not mind if today I devote most of my letter to the story of my work. Of course, I will touch on the topic of my family a little, but I will talk more about this in my subsequent letters. I do not want this letter of mine to be as long as my previous letter. I am afraid that so my letters will quickly bore you, and you will close my letter, as most of my classmates closed Lev Tolstoy’s book “War and Peace” !! By the way, this is my favorite book. But now the story is not about that, but about my work. So, I work in a clothing store. And as I wrote to you in my last letter, I hold the position of an accountant there, but also help sellers on the trading floor. I like my main job as an accountant, but I also like helping other women choose clothes and be beautiful! (((((( It’s worth mentioning that when I graduated from the University and received the education of an Accountant, I couldn’t find work in my specialty for a long time. I worked as a hairdresser for several years! I did women makeup and hairstyles, dyed them hair!
In general, I did what I do now - I make women more beautiful !!)) Of course, I was sad that after I spent 5 years studying Accounting, I had to work in a hairdressing salon, but in Russia after graduation it is always difficult to find work in a specialty! As a result, only half a year ago I was lucky and I found a job in a clothing store where I work right now!)))))) I really like it here, but at the same time I'm constantly busy, and I returning home is always very tired !!
I live alone! My mom and sister live in the village. Unfortunately, I don’t have more free time to talk about my family, but will I do this in my next letter, okay ?? Please tell me about your education, about where you had to work. What difficulties in training and work have you encountered ?? It will be interesting. I hope my letter didn’t tire you too much ?? I tried to write a short letter, but I feel like I got a little carried away again. ))) I wish you a good day and wait for your answer if you are not bored with me.)) Elena

Hi Gerald !!! Thank you for your new letter !!! I am glad that our communication continues, and I can see your letters when I have a break at work !! Thank you so that you show me that you are interested in our communication. I really appreciate that! Gerald, so in my previous letter I promised you to write more about my family. I only managed to write that I have a mom and a sister. But this is not entirely true. I still have a nephew! ;) This is a good boy. The son of my older sister. He is 9 years old and his name is Yuri !! My sister named him after Yuri Gagarin. I think you know the name of the First Cosmonaut ?? Yes, I don’t have a father because he left my mother, me and my sister more than 20 years ago. I was then 6 years old, and my sister was 10 years old. Our mother raised us alone. She worked as a milkmaid at the Dairy Farm in our village. She got up at 3:30 AM in the morning, had breakfast and went to milk the cows. She returned at about 7:00 AM in the morning, woke me and my sister to prepare for school. My mother never had free time, but at the same time I always knew that she loves me and my sister. My sister replaced my mother in many ways, because my mother worked hard to bring us up alone. I was very lucky with my sister. Usually, children in the family often argue over toys or some other reason, but my sister never offended me. She always braided my braids when we were going to kindergarten. It was so sweet that even now I am writing this letter to you and smiling. It is a pity that she, too, was not very lucky with her husband. Her husband often drinks large quantities of alcohol. He even hit her a couple of times in the past, but my sister did not find the strength to leave him and start a new life. I do not blame her for this. This is her choice, but I can confess that their relationship is one of the reasons why I do not want to build a relationship with a Russian man !! And, of course, my father’s example when he left my mother with two young children left an indelible impression on my heart! Is it possible that Russian men lack a special gene that is responsible for family values ​​?? I do not know this for sure, but I can say that my mother and sister are wonderful women who appreciate such a thing as a family hearth and, of course, they deserve more happiness! It is only a pity that in Russia there are hundreds of thousands of similar examples when men leave their wives and children. Moreover, there are those men who beat not only their wives, but also children !!! This is terrible!!! And the terrible thing is that the laws of my country do not always protect the rights of women who are subjected to violence, which is probably why men here feel too unpunished. Now some activists are trying to make the law "on domestic violence" finally adopted in my country. This law should protect all family members from violence, but at the moment there are many opponents of this law. And, of course, I can’t understand why my country encourages domestic violence! Personally, I do not want to suffer from a beloved man. I want a happy relationship when a man and a woman respect and value each other. I want my man and I to please each other in everything. It’s so nice when a man can just give flowers for his beloved woman. And a woman can arrange a romantic dinner without any reason. Do you agree with me?? I think that happiness is in the details. I wake up in the morning and the first thing I go to the window. I open the curtains and let the light into my apartment. I rejoice in that sunny bunny, which, bouncing off my mirror, jumps onto my pillow. Then I go to this very mirror, look at my reflection and smile at myself !! I say out loud to myself: "Good morning, Elena !!!" No, no, I'm not crazy. ;) Of course, I live alone in my apartment, and I do not have enough of a loving man nearby, but I am not crazy. Mark, if it’s not difficult for you, then please try to start your morning by wishing you a good day and smiling at your reflection. You will see that your day will be more enjoyable than always. This is a very simple secret how to make yourself happier.
Since my childhood, my mother taught me this. As I told you, my mother had no simple life, but she always smiled. She never despaired, and she taught me to look at life positively !! Gerald, now I have to apologize, because unfortunately I can’t continue my story about my family now. Today I will send you a photo of my sister, nephew and mother. My break is over and I have to work! I will continue my story about this in my next letter. I will also try to tell you a little more about my childhood and youth. I wish you a good day. Your Elena

Hello Gerald !!!! It’s very good that you wrote to me again !!! I am gradually beginning to get used to our communication, and I am really happy to find your letter on my e-mail !!! It helps to brighten up my gray days !! I hope that my letters also bring you no little pleasure and no overworking you too much ?? It is important for me that both of us can feel the joy of reading our letters. Of course, I understand that my letters are a little long, but every time I write you a letter, it’s hard for me to stop! For example, do you have real friends who are easy for you to talk to? When you don't have to think about what to tell you to end an awkward pause? I think everyone knows this !! So, it's easy for me to write letters to you !! It is easy for me to read your letters and answer them !! It makes me happy!! This is a good sign! )) Gerald , in my last letter I didn’t have time to tell you everything I wanted to tell about my family! I understand that you are wondering why my father left the family, if my mother is really that good? It all started after the collapse of the Soviet Union, when, along with the collapse of the country, almost all agriculture fell into decay! My father worked as a tractor driver, but the collective farms quickly fell into decay and the tractor drivers were paid little. My father started drinking gradually! I was little, but I remember well how he came home *****! These are not pleasant memories.
Due to his frequent drunkenness, family relations began to collapse!
After a while, he found himself another woman with whom he often drank and left us! He died a couple of years later from cirrhosis of the liver! But no, let's talk about it! After all, in my last letter I promised to tell you more about my childhood and youth? So, I've always been an obedient daughter! I studied well, participated in various competitions in mathematics and other school subjects! I did a lot of sports: skating and skiing, cycling! I remember how one day I was skiing down the mountain and, probably, I accelerated too much, because suddenly I fell and ended up in a deep snowdrift. But it wasn't scary. It was scary that I broke both skis! No, I was not afraid that my mother might scold me for it. My mom was always kind, but now I needed to buy new skis. Of course, skis were not expensive, but even this amount was too much for my mother! I knew that my mother would buy me these skis even if she herself was starving, but I could not allow this! I agreed with some of my neighbors that I would come and clean the snow in their yard for money! I got up at 5 am and cleaned the snow, then went to school and cleaned the snow again after school !! I was 11 then, and then I started earning my first money! I remember how my mother was proud of me !!)) Yes, my childhood was not simple, but I love my childhood! I love Mom's hot rice and meat pies!
I love the potato pancakes she used to bake by the oven !! My mom is good at cooking and loves to do it. She gave me this love! I also love to cook!

Dear, it's me again! I accidentally pressed the wrong button and sent you my unfinished letter! I wrote to you about what I like to cook. I hope you read the first part of my letter ?? if not, please find and read this, okay ?? Gerald , My mother told me many recipes for her dishes. And I did the same thing hundreds of times as my mother did, but I didn’t succeed. And this happened until my mother revealed her main secret !!! In order to cook deliciously, there is no need to be a Chef Michelin Restaurant !! To do this, it is enough to love the people for whom you are cooking !!)) This is a very simple signature recipe for my mother, right ??)) Yes, my mother is a wonderful woman !! I sincerely love her. Ohh, what a big mistake on my part !!! I tell you about my mom, but I haven’t even told you her name. My mom's name is Lubov! If you translate her name from the Russian language, it will mean "Love." Maybe that's why there is so much love in her heart ??
Gerald , could I ask you to tell me about your childhood memories ?? Do you have any dishes that you especially loved as a child ?? Maybe some family traditions ?? By the way, there is one such tradition in my family, but I’d better tell you about it in my next letter. Now I will have to finish my letter and continue to work! I will look forward to your reply!)) Your Elena

Hello dear Gerald! )) Thanks for your letter!!! Thank you for the good mood that you give me when I receive your letters. Sometimes we all need so little to smile, right? Your letters become an important ritual of my day! Despite the fact that I am always very busy with work, I do not forget about you and always try to find the opportunity to read your letter and write you an answer !!! Gerald, I just now noticed that I wrote to you: "Hello dear Gerald!" I did it absolutely without hesitation! I hope you don’t mind that I called you "Dear" ??
I was able to afford to address you like this today, because I feel like I am freeing myself from letter to letter. If our communication took place in reality, then, probably, it would be difficult for me to tell you so openly about my life: about my family, my father and my childhood! And of course, it would be difficult for me to take the first step to start our acquaintance! Yes, of course, in the modern world, many women themselves approach men for dating and this is considered normal. I do not say that it is not right! In my first letters I wrote to you that each person builds his own happiness with his own hands, and therefore any woman has the full right to be the first to get acquainted with a man. But I say that I have a more conservative upbringing! I will try to explain to you what I want to say! My sister and I never drank and no smoked! Even now I can rarely drink some red wine or champagne! We have never tried drugs! We always helped my mother with homework: fed pigs, ducks, hens and geese. True, I must confess that I personally have never fed geese! My sister did it because the geese always wanted to pinch me! No, I didn’t tease them, but for some reason no geese loved me !! But piglets loved me. )) I even had a favorite pig named "Nusha"! It was a glorious pig with a huge appetite. I always tried to feed Nusha something delicious.
Sometimes I didn’t even eat the cakes that my mother gave me to secretly feed the pig. Did you have any favorite animal in your childhood ?? Of course, like most children, I loved dogs and cats, but for some reason I remembered now just about the piglet. And anyway, I apologize for changing the subject so unexpectedly. ) I repeat that it is very easy for me to write letters to you, and I even feel that you are my old friend whom I have not seen for so long and tell you about what new things happened in my life while we were not seeing each other. This is strange, right ?? But let's get back to the topic of education! I talked about how my sister and I always helped my mom.
Many of our classmates fled to discos, but we did homework instead!
No, my mother didn’t lock us in the house, so that we wouldn’t let go anywhere, and no would make us work! My mother has not read us morality! We just looked at mom and saw in her an example to follow!
Now in my city I see a lot of young mothers who walk with young children and at the same time drink ****, smoke and swear! This is terrible because the child sees it and begins to repeat after their Parents! Parents should set the right example! They must go in for sports so that children also start to love sports! For example, for me, my aunt was also an example to follow! This is my mom’s sister!
It’s following her example that I entered the University to receive Accounting Education! To do this, I had to move from the village to Ulyanovsk! It is approximately 90 kilometers from the village where my mother and sister live! It's not as far as my aunt did! She moved to live in Kiev, this is Ukraine! She married a Ukrainian man. But she comes to us every year, despite the fact that now between my country and Ukraine there are complicated political relations! By the way, in the last letter I promised to tell you about our family tradition!
When my aunt comes to visit Russia, then we will definitely go to the cemetery to my grandparents! Do you have a similar tradition of coming to the cemetery ?? My grandparents lived in Ulyanovsk, and when I entered the University, I lived with them and helped them! My grandfather died when I was in my 2nd year at the University, and my grandmother died a year after that! Their apartment was inherited by me! It was an old house, and the house was already intended for demolition, so I received some compensation from the city authorities and used this money to buy a new apartment. Of course, for this I had to take a big loan from the bank! At that time I was already working, and the bank approved this loan for me. I still pay for it! As you know, I live alone, so when I return home, I am very lonely! And in order to escape from loneliness, I watch TV or read books! Yesterday I switched from channel to channel until I came across the movie "Gone with the Wind"! I've watched this movie several times already, but you can always watch a good movie again, right? Today I plan to do more useful things - I’ll go to the fitness center! Please write me, what are your plans for this evening? I look forward to your next letter!
Elena

Hello dear Gerald !!! I am glad to receive another letter from you! Now I’ve thought about how great it is that we live in the 21st century, when we don’t have to wait a month or more so that correspondence from one corner of the world reaches another corner of the world! All this happens in one second !! The world has become more open, and it’s really great that men and women from different countries can communicate !! Perhaps in the future the borders between the countries will be destroyed not only on the Internet, but also on the World Geographic Map ?? And then we can easily visit each other?)) What do you think of the geographical boundaries between the countries ?? Are they needed or not ?? I'm interested in your opinion!! Gerald, I'm sorry, but now I have to close my letter to help my colleague! I will be back soon and continue my letter!

Gerald, I'm here again. Sorry I had to interrupt my last letter, but I had to urgently accept payment from the buyer! Sometimes we have to deal with customers who don’t like to wait a single minute and can even be rude! Of course, we cannot enter into any conflicts. We must be polite in all circumstances. It’s not difficult for me, because I try to never conflict! From my own experience I can say that negative energy only provokes even more negative energy! In general, I try to treat all people with understanding. There is so much cruelty in the world that all of us should start smiling more often. ))) Every day I see a lot of people who have only concern or anger on their faces!
This morning I went to work and saw a situation where a motorist nearly knocked a woman at a pedestrian crossing because he did not look at the road, but instead read something in his smartphone! He jumped out of the car, waved his hands and long scolded a woman who was not guilty of anything! It is good that the police were nearby and the driver of the car was quickly reassured and even gave him a fine for nearly knocking down a pedestrian. This is not an isolated situation when people are completely immersed in their smartphones, that they don’t even notice anything around! For example, I notice a lot of young girls who meet in a cafe and do not talk to each other, but continue to write something on their smartphone.)) It seems to me that at this time they are writing something to each other instead of saying something with words!)) Some people don’t even get a spoon in their mouth, because they can’t look away from the screen.)) Most likely they don’t even taste the food they eat !! Of course, I am not against modern technology. They make our lives easier. It was also very difficult for me when a criminal a couple of months ago pulled out my bag where my smartphone, all my wages and apartment keys were lying. I contacted the police, but there is still no news about this.
I asked them to look at the cameras that were near the stop, but the police say that because of the darkness, the face of the offender is difficult to recognize! So I was left without a smartphone, without keys and without money! It's good that my friend Ecaterina lent me money to pay for a loan, for food, and even gave me her old Nokia 101 phone, which I still go with. And it's good that I still have access to the "cloud", and I can send you some of my old photos that were taken on an old smartphone! Of course, I immediately changed the lock on my apartment door! Tell me how crime is in your country ?? Maybe this situation is observed only in my country? Gerald, I think it's time to move on to another topic of conversation! What, I haven’t told you yet ?? I think I told you about where my aunt works, but I didn’t say that my sister works at the Post Office. By the way, if we sent letters to each other in an envelope, then my sister would bring them to me.)) Although not !! She works as a postman in the village, but not in Ulyanovsk. And this is about 100 kilometers from Ulyanovsk. Of course, sometimes I go to them, but sometimes my mother and sister come to Ulyanovsk themselves. It is possible that on my next day off I will be able to visit my relatives! I think they will be very surprised if I tell them about you! In any case, they will be happy for me, because if I am happy, then they are happy! And at the moment I can confidently say that I am happy that I contacted a dating agency and wrote you my first letter! Please be sure to keep writing to me !!
I will wait for your next answer! Elena