Letter(s) from Nidir Nuhu to Eric (USA)

Letter 1

Hello Dear I'm a 30year old (birthday is Christmas Eve ) Black African female, single , no kids, 5-8 ft tall, 128 lbs., black hair and fiar colour.I live in the capital city of Ghana - Accra, which is along the coast of Ghana, and have been studying science biology full-time student for 3 years at the University of Ghana. but i stop going to school as soon as i lost my parent cos i can not aford the money to pay scholl fees, I generally try to live a somewhat healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it) I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more, and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of humor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take i n a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me, or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well I realize that I am 30 years old and that you are somewhat Older than me, if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible . Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. Until next time (and I hope I didn't scare you off), Reply soon. Your Honey.....hidir

Letter 2

hello dear.how are you doing,i know you are fine as am here.thank you for your email me too.we gate to know each orther better.that why i want call you or to call me and i have expant the calling card yesterday i think you are sand me the calling card money to but it yesterday so that i call you but not.i wish we can here each orthere voice so that can know each and the with you too.i think that is the better way too to know our salf ..that is the better way too......

Letter 3

When I first saw your name on my computer screen, your words have kept me in a trance. I love you because of who I am when I am thinking of you, and I dream of who we would be together, should that ever become possible. You are the one: the first person who doesn't simply look at me or through me, but sees deep into me. You are the only one who holds the key to my soul and knows the combination to my heart. When we chat, I become vulnerable, and I know that my deepest secrets and the things that make me hurt so much are safe with you. I trust you, and I trust myself in your love; because of this we will never again wander this earth alone. You have only to look at our planet, or gaze at the stars we both see, to know that someone cares and always will. Distance has not eliminated the possibilities, but simply made any time together sweet and cherished. Although I need not say it, --it doesn't matter how it is phrased, but how it is felt Okay and i understand ...Love come in many ways and it come in part to part..Larry i need u so badly