Letter(s) from Sophia Asante to Gerry (USA)

Letter 1

Hello Gerry ,
How are u doing and how is everything with u if i may ask again? Well thanx for the mail message on mate1 and its nice meeting u and u are welcome .Well before i start , here is all about my self and pics too,hope u would love them and get to know all about eachother as time goes on and see what happens from there..As u already know am by name Matilda Mensah Adjie from Mate1.com,Am 36 yrs of age and I hope that wouldn't bother you since Age is just a number interms of love, the most important thing is meeting both couples enjoying life and happiness together and am a single female,HAVE NO kid, 5-7 ft tall, 120lbs..I was born in new orleans, usa but my mom is a Ghanaian and dad originated from usa ..besides good love has no boundaries and no one knows where he or her love might come but I am now down here in west africa,Gh in my motherland where i grew up,i run a grocery shop that my granny owns here...
I have been studying accounting full-time student for 3 years at the University of Ghana and now a graduate.I generally try to live a some what healthy lifestyle, exercising and some sort of jogging, 3-4 days a week and eating healthy, (trust me, I love sweets and pastries, but try not to over do it). I would also like to find a like-minded male where we can participate in activities together and encourage each other to pursue their interests as well. I have several hobbies (and wish I could find more time to pursue those) such as swimming, playing computer, dancing, and reading, and more,and would like someone to share that with, as well as their sharing their interests with me... I am generally an optimistic person with a sense of hunor, fairly easy-going, and I don't think that I'm too critical about things, but I also believe that it takes two people contributing to a relationship to make it work. As I mentioned earlier, I like to do things with the other significant person in my life, but I also encourage him to go out and spend time with friends and pursue his own interests and hobbies as well. I believe that time spent apart helps keep things fresh in a relationship and makes the time we DO spend together even better. I'm not one who cheats in a relationship; one man is enough trouble ; I don't have the time or energy to juggle 2, 3, or 4 at the same time - haha. But I also want to be in a relationship where I can totally trust the other person and not dwell on how the relationship is NOT working...
I DO NOT expect a man to be a servant to me, spending all his time working and and cleaning; I believe there is give and take in a relationship, and I realize that at times it's more convenient for me to do laundry, cook, clean, and I have no problem doing that. I consider myself to be a fairly honest and truthful person and expect the same in return; I'm not wealthy and don't expect someone to attempt to deceive me or "play" me. Everybody makes mistakes and I usually give people the benefit of the doubt, but if the same pattern keeps emerging, it's over. I do not want to meet someone who may think that they will take advantage of me or lie to me and cheat on me under false pretenses. Sorry if that sounds harsh, and I'm not accusing anybody of any wrongdoing, but I'm being upfront and honest about that, so you know where I stand from the beginning. With all due respect as well, I hope that you are upfront and honest with me, as well. if you would still like to correspond, that's fine...we'll see how things go after we get to know each other. Well, I hope that this lets you know a little about me, and I hope I don't come across as being too cynical, harsh, or meansounding. I will give anybody the benefit of the doubt (we're all human, we all make mistakes), but I also don't like being taken advantage of. I'm just asking you to keep it real and be honest from the beginning; that way, nobody is wasting their time or getting their feelings hurt. I also realize that at times two people are just too different to be in a relationship together; it doesn't mean that it's anybody's fault, it's just that they're too different to be compatible. Hope this finds you in good health and that things are well with you. Until next time (and I hope I didn't scare you off).i hope you will like all that i said about my self so mail me back again on matilda_online4u@yahoo.com
Thank U.

Letter 2

Hello Honey,
I always dreamed of finding someone really special who would come into my life and love me, someone who would understand me, encourage my efforts, and share my dreams and now i found that person which is you Gerry, I dreamt of a man that would make me smile and laugh again.Someone I could trust, someone who would never hurt me again.I dreamt of someone who would hold me close and u have made my dreams come true when i met u Gerry .I hve fallen in love with u and i think I love you for loving me just the way I dreamed it would be. Just when I thought that love could never be a part of me, that's when you came along and showed me happiness and made me a complete woman once again and for that i promise to love u forever no matter what happens . Gerry i would want u to know that Love is sweet when it's new, but sweeter when it's true ,thats the way my love is for u . You are such a tender and special person, and ever since we met you made me feel "special" just by the way you talk with me, and listen with me,I want to give u so much in return and wish to spend the rest of my life with u and for that i would always be ready to relocate to u whenever u wish for me to. All i keep doing is to think of u and cant keep u out of my mind Gerry which i dont know why,thinking of you makes my life complete. You're now my golden clouds; you're my beautful smile. You are all the soulful love songs within my spirit, like an angel calling me... perfect for me and my soul and the man i have been looking for all this while,i once again Thank you soo much for coming into my life honey.
I really do love you and want u to also love me back the same way,with trust and understanding,caring and loving,honesty ,faithfulness and thruthfulness we can build a happy and longlasting relationship till when we would meet in person which is what am expecting from both of us in making this relationship workout for us.I would findout about the calling card and would let u know so i can start calling u from time to time as it would really help in getting us closer to eachother and help creating a strong trust between us apart from chating online...Well hve to get off now so till i hear back from u take care for me and goodbye for now...I love uuuuu!!

Letter 3

Hello Gerry,
Well If I haven't told you honey, I am so lucky to have you in my life Gerry. I adore and love you so much ! You are a wonderful man and words cannot convey how much you mean to me. Just thinking about these feelings makes me tingle all over - to this day I still have butterflies in my stomach just like the ones would hve at the Melting Pot. I feel like these feelings should be left for teenagers only - I don't know if you understand what I am saying: it feels great to actually love and be love in return. I would never feel less or more when I am with you there Honey; you always made me feel needed and complete.You are a God's gift to me in every way and most of all you make me feel safe, emotionally and mentally. Thank you for being part of my life now. I'm very happy with you and I could not ask for a better man than you. Thank you for loving me despite of my shortcomings and emotional rollercoastering. Thank you for being an exceptional man - you are one of a kind!
Well as for the address you would be needing for the western union transfer i first want to know if it wouldn't be a problem to you for me to use my junior brother's adress cause he do receive gifts outside country and he can assist me , this is my first time and i dont want to hve problems .So if u dont mind,below is the adress which is:

ZIPCODE: 00233.

I Hope get the calling card and start calling u tomorow cause i really cant wait to hear ur sweet voice once again,till i hear back from u honey bye for now and take care for me.
Love always,