Letter(s) from Megan Richmond to Paxton (Canada)

Letter 1

How are you doing? your profile look so nice and am sure your way of living will be good enough to live and get married with...Now I guess a question will come to your mind(Why is she Single)isn't it...ok ok,I used to have a boyfriend but I broke up with him,I caught him on bed with my best close friend,you know how that is,it's a SHOCK,lol. and that is Make me Feel Sad and I dont think I can be Love anymore... But I have to give things a try Just to know where it will lead to...so this led me to break up with him,was I right by that decision???I seek for a complete honest man,who will come home to me,love me,adore me,a strong man with a strong heart who will want our relationship to last forever,a compassionate man,one with good heart and know how to handle matters,I want a lover not a fighter,lol I am committed life to living to the fullest and in growing as a person.Well,i am a very sincere and honest,am caring,kind,social,smart ,intelligent,passionate ,friendly,romantic,I'm trustworthy so far as people tell me maybe I'm just laid back,lol and i believe in the truth and honest of love..i am really a very sincere person when it comes to sharing feelings and emotions with that special person and i really am down to heart honest about the things i say and do cause i don't like hurting peoples feelings..

Well my name is Megan Richmond ..i was born in bountiful in Utah.. i work for my parent in a Rubber company in Canada, right now it has been shut down because they recently died in an auto crash in the states , but i currently work for the NGO,NON GOVERNMENTAL ORGANIZATION we teach against HIV in Lagos,Nigeria . i really need someone to live with right now because i have been single for years now but now am trying to get someone so special on this dating site I will like you to send me your Pictures Thanks I am so pleased to read your reply,it has warm my heart and I am hoping to get to always hear from you.I hope this will take us to the next level and we could build a relationship that will last forever..I want you to know that i will be right back to the State very soon,I just need to finished something here ....Distance between us does not bother me as I know we could meet,I liked your profile and all I read about it was awesome,it will be my pleasure to get to know more about you too.

I believe In God and I have faith that with Him all things are Possible, Am looking for a man that can make me happy and be there for me through thick and thin and that can help me find the treasure that i have lost and will see me through all my ups and down, a man that is loving caring,understanding,that will respect my opinion and most of all that play the game of love...I am Looking for a real and serious relationship that will last for ever... I believe that Distance is Nothing But Love Matters Most to me....Its a pretty good here in Nigeria anyway but its a little bit sunny and I don't have Choice had to live here like that and i will be coming back to the state anytime soon, just want to find someone nice before i come because im ready to sacrifice myself the right man not the wrong man and make me happy,....Hmmmm I guess enough is being said about me.

That is all what I can say for now and I will be Looking to hear back from you so I can answer the Questions I ask from you in return..... I cant wait to hear back from you and Knows where this will lead to.... Thank you and have a Nice Moment..

Letter 2

I'm glad to hear back from U.You seem very attractive and sound nice..to know better.it's has warm my heart and I am hoping to get to always hear from you.I hope this will take us to the next level and we could build a relationship that will last forever.Distance between us does not bother me as I know we could meet,I liked your profile and all I read about it was awesome,it will be my pleasure to get to know more about you and answer the following love questions openly and honestly with each other..
What do you do for a living?
You ever been married?
Do you have a kids?
What do you seek for in a relationship?
What are the basic qualities you seek for in a lady?
What sort of relationship you seek for?
What do you do for fun?
What religion, if any, does your believe in?
Are you morning or night person?
What is your idea of a perfect date?
What is your favorite...
color, food, place to go, movie, song, drink, relative, gift to receive,
style of clothing, flower..
Do you like public intimacy?
How long have you been single?
What's being single like?
What are the top ten gifts You would like to receive from Your Love?
Do you want children? How many?
What is your idea of a dream...
house, car, vacation, job?
What did You always want to be when you "grew up?"
How do you treat your lady?
Why do you need a lady?
Can you love this lady?
What is love to you?
Would you hit your lady for any reasons?
but asking all of those questions will definitely bring us a step forward and closer in getting know one another. I hope to hear back from you soon, I eagerly await for your reply.
Yours truly,

Letter 3

What a good answer to those my Question.I adore you and I am opening my heart to you.Just need you to be easy with it.I feel so safe and secure in you.Can you be the man of your word in your written,I hope you can.Since the question is reciprocal,my answers are below here:

How Old are you? I am 26years Old

Have I ever been married? No

Do I have any children? No ,
What do I seek in a relationship? I seek to have a long term relationship with someone I love and we can grow old together,honesty,understanding,sincerity,love and sharing,sharing the good times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us. I guess would come the balance that is missing in my life, someone who can trust me and I can trust with feelings, innermost secrets and desires in life.

What sort of relationship you seek for? I want my husband to be honest, loving caring, loyal, yet independent with an open mind,the relationship I want us to be build on the solid foundation which is love and trust,I do believe with this 2 ingredients of relationship,so many relationships has come to success unlike ones built on falsies and pretencies.

What qualities do I seek in a Man? Honesty, faithfulness,caring, the ability to love me for who I am,not who you want me to be,I don't expect anybody to change for me, I shouldn't have to change for someone.

What do I do for a living? I Just finish studies I am searching for a Job

What do I do for fun? I like to do a wide variety of things for fun. I like to bowl, shoot pool, play golf,( none of which I'm very good at, but I really enjoy them), I also like to get away, maybe a weekend trip to the beach in the winter, or go to the mountains, just relax and enjoy.

What religion do I practice? Im a christian...I do believe in God alot..

Am I a morning or night person? Both to a sense. When I have to work,

What is my idea of a perfect date? Wouldn't so much be where or what we do, would be who it's with. If your on a date with the person and everything just clicks or falls into place.....that's my idea of a perfect date.

What's my favorite....
color, Blue
food, pork chops and mashed potatoes,Pizza and sea food..
place to go, anywhere with the Man of my life as long as we are both happy
movie, The Crow(with Brandon Lee),and I really like The lake house
song, now that's a tough one, probably Sitting on the Dock of the Bay
drink, well living in the south that's gotta be sweet-tea
relative,Im left alone and my mom
gift to receive, love, everything else pales in comparison
style, I'm a working Woman,so my favorite style is more dress/casual

How do I feel about public intimacy? Yes, but only to a point. Giving my boyfriend a hug, a kiss, or holding hands are great, but nothing further I think that should stay behind closed doors.
How long have I been single? I haven't had a boyfriend in over 2 years. I haven't met anyone that I've connected with since then.

Do I want children, if so how many?Yes I do want children ..2 or 3 kids.however this time I'd like to be better prepared for Motherhood.

What is my dream job, car vacation, house? I have my dream job, I love what I do(would love it more if I got paid better), my dream car is a '57 Willy's, my grandfather had one when I was a kid, and I loved that car,vacation, to spend a whole year traveling and learning history of different places and cultures, house, a log and stone house way out in the country,maybe out west up in the mountains.
What did I want to be when I grew up? A kid,(l.o.l.) I always wanted to be the best Mother and Wife I could ever be.
How would I treat a Man? I treat all Guys with the utmost respect,my Man I would give all the love in my heart and soul, as well as I possibly can.
Why do I need a Man? I need a Man so I can share my life with,Although I have spent 2 year single, and to me it was well worth it, I feel like I'm only half of what I can be.
How would I love my Man? with every bit of being I have in my heart and soul, without judgment or jealousy. I would love my man with the love you can have only for that special guy in your life.

What is love to me? Being able to always see the goodness in a persons heart, being able to see past the shortcomings and realize that the person is who you want to grow old with and have those "butterflies" throughout life.
Would I ever hit my Man? NEVER, I honestly just couldn't live with myself doing that. One thing my mother taught me is just how wrong that action is and how devastating it can be when you are in love. I'm afraid of how that would adversely affect how I feel about myself. I might come across sort of gruff, but truth be told, I'm just a teddy bear at heart, the thought of hurting ANYBODY, hurts me.
I answer them all in fullness, and as honestly and truthfully as possible. I hope my answers to your questions are what you are looking for in a Woman. And I can't wait to hear back from you soon.

Letter 4

Hello Sweetheart
Thanks alot Im doing great and happy to hear from you,well i will love to tell u that i only need a man that will never do anything to hurt me i am a lady who treat a man like the king of my life before My lovely Dad died.He told me I should never do anything to hurt a man but i have try to be honest with me men but is like they take me like a fool so i did not want to just say but right now i need a man i could just trust and he will trust me so that will could just have a long term relationship together and have a lovely kids and a happy home can;t wait to see this in a relationship i just believe as soon as the men and a woman is honest in a relationship everything is going to be alright try to understand my feeling about this...I'm tired of being single in my life..I need someone like you to be there for me,Love me,Care for me,Never let me down.Supportive.Never try to hurt me/Cheated on me or Hit me once...

With all this time we've had together
Can I share my worries with you?
Can you handle my fears I bestow?
Can I count on you to walk with me
Down a long a winding road?
I don't want a promise
Of which there's no guarantee
Can I trust you with my heart,
Without you breaking it on me?
My heart's vowed never to fall in love again
But it's weakened & has come to surrender,
To be held in your tender hands
And mended back together.
But I hope you can understand
That I don't want to go too far
Without knowing just one answer
. . . Can I trust you with my heart?
Yours truly